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This particular one was saying something along the lines of "stop saying you're depressed. You're not depressed. You're Having a bad day." Where in fact being depressed is an emotion. An emotion everyone is capable of experiencing. Being depressed does not mean you have depression, it means you are depressed. If someone said they had depression or suffer from depression when they were only having a bad day then those people would be wrong. Depression is the mental disability. Depressed is an emotion. 

YOU CAN BE DEPRESSED WITHOUT HAVING DEPRESSION!!!!!! 

I looked up the definition of both and both have a definition for both, but the first one is the definition of the EMOTION. The next one down is then classified as either clinical or medical and it states those in the definition. (I literally just googled depressed definition & depression definition)

Depressed

- (of a person) in a state of unhappiness or despondency.

- (of a person) suffering from clinical depression.

Depression

- severe, typically prolonged, feelings of despondency and dejection.

-MEDICINE

a mental condition characterized by severe feelings of hopelessness and inadequacy, typically accompanied by a lack of energy and interest in life.

Just because someone says they're depressed doesn't mean that they are claiming to having depression. They could just be having a really bad day. Same goes the other way though, don't just jump to the conclusion that cause they said they're depressed that they're just having a bad day especially if they've said it a few times. Don't assume stuff, because you don't know what the other person is going through. Ask people and make sure they are ok. Please look out for your friends and other people.

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My brother is going to one of his friends weddings on the 10th of a month. The thing is he can’t remember what month. He does know that that month starts with M though. 

Being the helpful sister i am i started listing all the months that started with M:

March

Mapril 

May

Maugust

Moctober

Movember

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What hurts most is the one person i trusted more than anyone else on this planet lied, hurt and cheated me. Yet I don't know if I've made the right choice to forgive them cause I had to make a decision quickly because of a time limit i couldn't get out of.

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I'm extremely happy by the fact that i can just reach my hand out right now and touch Liam's butt…and he doesn't care cause he's playing xbox XD

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You know its going to be a good conversation when your boyfriend says "You know if I was a Spice Girl…"

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Rule 1 of tag club: Post the rules

Rule 2 of tag club: Answer the questions the tagger asked you then make 11 new ones (also tag the tagger)

Rule 3 of tag club: Tag 11 people and link them to your post

Rule 4 of tag club: Let them know you’ve tagged them

Rule 5 of tag club: You don’t talk about tag club. (That isn’t actually one of the rules but I want it to be, please.)

1. Describe your favourite character’s personality?

ummmm they're self-obsessed and sarcastic and witty and a little shit  but they are also very loyal and caring (although they try to hide it and will deny it).

2. Tell me why your OTP is meant to be?

BECAUSE THEY ARE PERFECT they complete each other and they are just adorable together :3

3. Best plot twist you’ve seen?

haha i really dont know...the only one i can think of is probably when i thought that i was only going to talk to this guy for one night and never hear from him again....now he's my boyfriend. That kinda tripped me out

4. Tell me your love story if you feel comfortable - if you don’t then tell me your favourite fictional love story (or both!)?

Well, we started talking online at first and then after a few months of talking (and falling more in love with him) I flew over to be with him and now were waiting until he gets to come to me in few more days :3 

5. Imagine your dream life. What’s it like?

Um where Liam and I together? That is all I know that I want right now.

6. Do you have any catchphrases? Share them!

They're probably: agh shit, what the fudge brownies and so on and so forth  

7. Do you have any theories on the world (how it’s created, the purpose of life, what the future has in store, history of humanity)?

Its kinda morbid, but i think that humans are made to die, like we are all gonna die one day.

8. An interesting fact about yourself?

I have red hair and green eyes and I think that that is a pretty cool combination.

9. Tell me what things that you go OCD over?

Rainbows. If there is any assortment of coloured things (pencils, highlighters anything) they need to be in rainbow order

10. If you were going to get a tattoo (or a new tattoo) what would it be of and where would it be located at?

I'm thinking a white tattoo or something so that it glows in uv light and isnt too noticable but still really cool when its pointed out or people know about it. but im thinking of getting a tattoo on my wrist, ankle, behind my ear and on one of my upper shoulder blades

11. What is your most sentimental possession?

hmmmm right now i'd have to say my 

MY 11 QUESTIONS FOR THE PEOPLE I’VE TAGGED:

I'm too lazy at the moment to think of questions also cause im sick and my brain is mush and i have to finish an assignment so yeah....SORRY!!

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I was just sitting on the couch, literally doing nothing but scrolling through tumblr while my dad watches tv when there is a crash in like the bathroom at the other end of the house and dad and i just look at each other and without breaking eye contact in the most serious face he says 'what did you break' 

seriously dad really im know im talented at breaking things but even i cant break things in another room by just sitting here

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I don't want to have to keep doing this!!

I’m so tempted right now to leave the airport, call a taxi and get it to take me back to Liam’s house cause I’m not dealing with the separation very well..

We only just separated and I’m sitting waiting for my flight all by myself (only cause I sent Liam away cause it’s late and his dad and younger brother had to come and drop me off too and I wasn’t going to make all of them wait 2hrs for my flight to leave).

I can’t stop crying every time I think about him now!! I just want his arms around me and for him to tell me everything is going to be alright.

I hope the next month goes quickly, so that I can see him again. And then I can book for the next time I come over here to see him, and I’m going to stay for a very long time when I go over next (if his parents don’t mind having me for a long time otherwise I’ll book accommodation or something, I don’t know I’ll figure it out later)

I just miss him sooo much and I feel empty without him… I envy the people who have been able to so this for a long time.. I know it’s so worth it but it hurts to not be with him!!

I can’t wait till we don’t have to travel to be with each other for a few weeks at a time, I’ll just have to convince my dad to let me move to Perth :/