hii just sending some positivity if anyone needs it; about three years ago (mb 4 idk) me and another aro guy i met got an apartment together and its been great. no romance no pressure for romance nothing.
we’re not in a qpr we’re just friends who live together and neither of us are interested in being together or with anyone else and we’re very happy with our situation and its unlikely to ever change. several years ago i was hopeless thinking i could never be happy without romance but im the happiest ive ever been and im comfortable with who i am and where i am.
i could live my whole life like this and i wouldnt change w thing :) we’re happy and comfortable.
so uh. you guys can do it. its possible. you dont have to date anyone you dont need a qpr you can just be yourself. and sometimes it just kinda works out and three years later you realize you’re where you wanna be.
being aro to me is to be happy 💚 good luck everyone ily
some aro positivity for any and all who need something to be happy about
