my slutty confession is that i don't have any recent slutty confessions bc although i am absolutely in love w my bf this is the most vanilla sexual relationship i've ever been in!! which at first felt refreshing and i LOVE having sex with him bc i feel safe and loved and warm but i'm starting to feel a little bored?? I used to be such a "wild child" as the kids say but now i feel as though i'm in a rut and it's giving me an identity crisis lol
then you should make the move and try to add some spice into the relationship. try new things, new positions perhaps a little bit of bdsm if you’re into it. but remember talking to him about this first because he may not be comfortable with some things and you need to respect that. if your communication with him is strong and you’re both up to try new things then i don’t see what’s the problem.