I really miss third spaces in winter, so now that its warm outside again I really try to use them more. We have a park that’s in between like 3 of my friends and me so we could a just walk there which is so nice. Especially in the city it’s so hard to find spaces that you can be in without having to purchase or consume anything. And I really should use the off time I have to be outside more, I kind of forgot that since I moved to the city.
I went to a speed dating event at our local queer café and it was an experience. I think our braind are not bade to interact with 25 people in two hours. I don’t even think I remember everyone I talked to. The next morning I felt hungover because I was so tired and kept remembering bits of conversations where I don’t know who I had them with. But it was also so interesting to see how I interact with such different people and how different the vibe can be. Like how I can be funny and cool to the first person but just don’t hit it off at all with the second one. I got a handful of matches and my two top picks matched me back and are meeting me for a party at the café today so I’d say very successful and worth it.
It was Eurovision time! We kinda have this tradition to watch in on discord together and have our own voting. I gotta say this year the songs were only okay and the jury voting was awful. But I love how everyone saw it and bonded over the awful votes together and how Cha Cha Cha is the winner of our hearts.
I guess I am the hair person of our friendgroup now. Usually I only do mine and my boyfriends hair but a friend wanted to cut their hair to make It easier after surgery and the came to me. So we went out on the balcony and buzzed their head. Before that everyone in the group got to cut off a strand of hair. I even kept one.
This happened on the last day of the month. A friend of mine does album listening parties on discord. I got to admit the first album was kind of awful but I’m not going to argue about techno with a server full of trans girls you know. Next time I’ll show them folk punk or something.
(a lot of real life and not media favorites)