#mbti date

[pumpkinoverthinking]

INFJ date standards

(Or maybe it’s just me, duh)

INFJ: I have high standards

INFJ: they must be HONEST and just a kind person

INFJ: Also not dumb, but also not a smartass

INFJ: be open-minded and non-judgemental, and have socio-political awareness, not a Trump, Boris Johnson or Xi supporter

INFJ: also well balanced in life and not delusional to counterbalance my grand Ni s

INFJ: also emotionally mature so I don’t end up becoming their counselor

INFJ: share similar cultures and music taste cannot be borderline boring

INFJ: and preferably more annoying than me and make me feel emotionally secure, which is hard

INFJ: and patient

INFJ: and taller than me, is that too much to ask for?

*An ENFJ/ ISFP/ ISFJ/ INFJ / INFP comes along* Hi what are you doinggg

INFJ: I don’t know what type you are but fuc you’ve passed all my standards

[pumpkinoverthinking]

INFJ ENTP moment

Or maybe he’s an ENFP, but definitely EP

INFJ: *recounting* and then I started asking stupid questions-

ENTP: -but sometimes you have to ask stupid questions to learn.

INFJ: hahah that’s true! *continues talking, got too excited and hit her head by a protruding corner of a frame on the wall*

ENTP: *stares into INFJ’s eyes with a smirk on his face* now that’s stupid.

INFJ: *heavy blush whispers* yeah

[pumpkinoverthinking]

Infj love motivation

- Believe you are a confident cute human worthy of love

- Being in love feels very vulnerable and fragile.

- It’s okay to not know everything because you can’t control everything,

- so you should instead focus on yourself, esp self improvement and your own feelings, instead of over analyzing other people’s.

- Being able to see through their actions doesn’t invalidate what they do, psychic!

- Be honest with your own feelings, don’t neglect them. They don’t need rational justifications, nor can they be logically explained.

- Be honest when communicating. You may/ may not have the tendency to speak your mind indirectly or in subtle ways. Being bold expresses that fun side of you.

- It’s okay to have trust issues, to feel like hiding parts of yourself. Give yourself time to open up. Take time.

- It’s gonna be okay. There’s no need to overworry: see how it goes, let go of yourself, and if you’re comfortable, you’ll have fun : )