Romantic phrases of an INFJ
Self analysis of locking the tiers of a cold-exterior, fluffy-interior INFJ
-absorb your vibe immediately and decide if you are a possibility
-Will not talk to you unless needed/ youāre so interesting that youāre the exception for me to open my mouth and say something random, like, āooh itās so warm today!ā *walks away in shame*
-Automatically overloading potential future scenarios between us two after knowing you for 5 minutes, itās a 0.5 sec brain flash but it is very annoying
1: I know you but not really
-find ways to make myself appear as welcoming and friendly to talk to, like smiling at you a lot
-staring a lot at you or stealing glances
-super shy, if I talk it will be a blabber
-will be more genuinely warm and conversational but to pick up what you are feeling. Do you like me in *that* way?
-will ask you probing questions
-show my wittiness and sarcastic humor to show Iām an intelligent being, not a dumbass flower vase (and to see if you reciprocate brains without being a smartass)
-emojis are used sparingly, not too much bcs I donāt give too much away, always subtle, be cool
-secretly fawning and plotting (overthinking) advances (but kinda slow)
-realizing my daydream of you is becoming reality and is terrified by that
-trying to enjoy the time without overthinking the future, the happier I am with you, the sadder I am contemplating the transcience of relationships
-easygoing just to look through who you truly are, trying to sense if there are any... past issues
4: you sure you wanna be with me
-once I feel secure, it will unleash my cheesiness
-my intelligence has been proven so now I can be silly esp with the GIFs
-getting used to let myself be taken care of by you
-always supporting you and preventing myself from giving you too much advice/ controlling
-when weāre spending time together, time flies past, I stop overthinking, or for once I donāt think because Iām just absorbing you at that moment. Just existing together and doing anything, almost āmeaninglessā, which is the entire opposite of me constantly wanting to find meaning in everything and my life.
-planning and daydreaming future together
-automatic relationship self improvements updating regularly in the background
-will try new things for you
5: weāve just been talking about childhood injuries for the whole bus ride
-I want to know all your dark secrets and insecurities and things that left a scar in you, including past relationships, normally itās easy for others to share with me, but with you Iām being extra careful
-unapologetic oversharing
-time to flex seduction skills
-I like trying things together, visiting places, walks without a destination, taking steps
-you must know my friends
-desire to give you all my love using the energy Iāve kept for my introverted self
-no longer worrying too much about the distant future, because this moment now with you is already what Iām living for. *cheese*