#mcclaimed asks

[homemadeknees]

Are you a Gold Star lesbian? (Just in case you don't know what it means, a Gold Star lesbian is a lesbian that has never had sex with a guy and would never have any intentions of ever doing so)

That’s such a gross term, my guy. Why did you come out of the woodwork to ask me this unnecessary ass question? I’m not even a lesbian????

update: I was wrong

[homemadeknees]

Hi! I saw your post about why not to use the word allosexual, and the reasons you gave would be good reasons not to support it, if they were accurate. But that isn't what allosexual means. While some people do incorrectly use that word to refer to people who have sex (just like some people incorrectly use asexual like celibate), what it actually means is "someone who is not asexual." It's like cisgendered is to transgendered. It just means the opposite of one orientation. That's all.

Hello! When I say someone who doesn’t experience sexual attraction, I’m referring to an asexual person, since asexuality is defined as those who don’t experience sexual attraction. Therefore, saying people who experience sexual attraction, saying allosexual and saying people who aren’t asexual are all the same thing. We’re saying the same thing with different wording, but I appreciate the clarification.

[homemadeknees]

6: Any tattoos do you want?

my sister, theangeliqueshow, and I were thinking about getting the roman numeral “18″ together since we're both born on the 18th day of our birth months, which are 6 months apart, with each of us being born 3 days before each of the solstices. I’m not that into numerology nor astronomy, but it’s pretty interesting :)

[homemadeknees]

Tips for coming out to your parents. I know you have a super chill home so you may not have had to do it, but if you had any tips that'd be helpful. Thanks !

Thanks for coming to me as a guide, anon! When I came out to my mom about being ace, I knew she didn’t really have much knowledge on the LGBTQ+ community so I explained to her what I was experiencing/ feeling and then gave it a title (this method also works with people who think they know what a certain orientation means when their knowledge is based on misconceptions). Since we seem to know each other in real life, I want to give you an invitation to send me a message off of anon if you want to talk on the phone or text or anything like that. You can also continue to send me anonymous messages anytime you want to talk :)

Have a great day, love!