We've been planning to buy a countertop dishwasher.
He found one in our price range that was full size, but portable, so it would work with our kitchen sink, like a countertop one would.
I said something about how it seems cool, but where will we store it when it’s not in use?
He considered what I said, and then came up with a spot that he told me about.
He explained how it has a flat top, so it would also serve as additional counter space, sort of.
“Okay.” I said.
“You’ll be using it more, though...so you can overrule me on this if you have a strong feeling.” he offered.
I was comfortable with him making the decision, and told him so.
Sometimes we have “meta-talks” in the midst of our “regular” conversations. It isn’t for everyone, I’m sure. But I love how casual and natural it feels for us.













