Can't stay away
I'm back yet again - rebuilding for the Nth time. Mid-50's daddy dom, western US. I'd love to reconnect with former mutuals. See tags for some of my old blog names.
Strong believer in the guiding principles of kink: Safe, Sane, and Consensual and RACK (risk-aware consensual kink). Anything goes in fantasy, but not IRL.
DNI if you are a minor (I do check). And I block freely. I don't tolerate hatred, real misogyny, real abuse, racism, or throwing various groups under the bus (people who are trans, LGBTQIA+, people with disabilities, religious groups, anyone). I also don't tolerate willful ignorance and stupidity, so if you're a Nazi or Nazi-adjacent, GTFOH.
Here are some good BDSM / Kink resources:
Tips for those new to BDSM
The difference between Abuse and BDSM
Updated library for kinksters
Revenge Porn Helpline
Hotlines for depression, suicide, domestic violence, other help, including international phone numbers for some
Non-Spanko Partners of Spanko Bottoms
How to vet a dom before you play
More to come