#might delete.

[simplycybby]

dirk dreamers room in working progress.

[softness-and-shattering]

I dont want this to be a whole thing but like

This idea that trans guys have it easy bc the patriarchy prizes masculinity and therefore obviously welcomes us with open arms

If you follow that logic whats being said

Is that all babies are assigned male, assuned male, privileged male until some people vary from that and display femininity and become women. Bc women are oppressed and seen as lesser and men are valued and privileged.

I very much understand that for trans women in general you were assigned male and presumed to be a man and treated as a man until you developed or noticed your femininity and began transition.

That is very much NOT the experience of being a trans guy. We were assigned female, treated as silly little girls and lesser women, we grew up targets of sexism and misogyny, taught to be quiet and out of the way sometimes also with some gurl power etc but we've had the oppression of being women from day one. And then we realised, wait, they were wrong, Im a guy and we take steps to transition.

No one says to us "great, the more men the better, let me introduce you to your new privileges". They say "youre a woman and youre being ridiculous, put your makeup back on you look ugly now". Even out and transitioning we are still targets of misogyny, it doesnt go away it just changes. We're still dumb girls, now we're also autistic and being taken advsntage of by scary people on the internet or we are the scary people on the interbrt. We still have to shut up and let our 'betters' talk bc uh youre a man you have privilege your voice doesnt matter. That trans guy with the chair thing talked about trans guy abortion issues w ben shapiro and people said "thats a woman I dont care what she calls herself" and peoplr said "he spoke well but maybe a woman should have got the seat in case she had more to say". Either we're dumb women so shut up or we're privileged men so shut up its exactly the same thing we are still victim to misogyny.

Im not playing who has it worse. Im just saying. People arent all men till they display femininity and then theres misogyby to deal with. A lot of us are girl and lesser since birth and transitioning doesnt make us, to cis patriarchal etc eyes, men. It makes us fucked up delusional ugly women to those people.

And im talking in how they see us broadly. Of course we are all who we know ourselves to be and we are wonderful and creayive with endless capacity for joy and curiosity and compassion.

The default just isnt man, unless you were assigned male ans raised as a guy (i acknowledge intersex folk, im not sure how to word things includively for yall rn). If you were assigned female raised a girl your default is girl. None of us are welcomed for "switchibg teams", thats not supposes to be allowed for anyobr.

[ithinkilikeit-reactions]

I want half the attention you give other people.

[birdgirl22]

a to z of me, game thing. a: Animals. I like animals. b: birds. cmon. c: countryhumans! d: death metal e: everywhere at the end of time f: five nights at freddys g: GERMANY! h: hatred. I: internet j: jerma k: kill.. l: liminal spaces m: Minecraft + Muse n: nature (plant nature, not violence) o: ocean p: pansexual Q: Queer R: religious aesthetic s: space t: Tanks U: utter pain V: veganism w: wind X: x-men y: youtube z: zephyr

[t6ylors]

evermore is one of her best albums..

[autismking]

being so deeply in love with someone and truthfully being enmeshed with them, then seeing them fall for someone else and walk out of your life forever…….man i would not wish this on anybody.

[dramaqueensjokerkings]

I want to create so that I can feel...and I want to feel so that I can create. It's a never ending cycle that keeps me stagnant, doing neither of those things.