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Christmas party with my blogger besties last third of December

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“I wish I was already 21” 

I remember thinking to myself a couple of years back, constantly envisioning how great life would be as an adult; free of restrictions and just living my life the way I want to, sans any parental permission or the people’s judgments; the rebellion as they like to call it. Now fast forward to 2016, where all I can wish for is some scientific breakthrough to stop me from aging and be stuck in teenhood forever, I ask myself, why did I ever crave to be in this endless turmoil that is adulthood?

If given the chance to go back and meet my younger self, besides calling out my style choices--or how i thought getting a mohawk on my sophomore year was a good idea--I would most probably tell myself that wanting to turn 21 for a yes to a week-long trip with friends on a far away destination isn't worth it; that getting in with the adult crowd isn't as cool as it sounds, or that having control in everything really isn't the power I've always wanted to have. That getting the last say for a decision and being held responsible for the consequences is something I'm not ready for just yet--and don't even get me started with the bills.

In short, i could just tell myself, Adulthood is a trap. I have long romanticized being of legal age, being in full control of your life and having the final say in things; It may have rooted from the number of times back in the day where I wasn’t taken seriously when I was trying to make a point, or those days i wanted to order a regular serving of my favorite pasta, but was just given a kid-friendly portion(lol). Whatever it was, it made me crave for some sense of superiority, something I always though adulthood would give me.

Technically, I was right. but it not only gave me that, but a lot of other things as well. Things that came with adulthood, which mostly, is something I’m not prepared for, nor expected. That’s when I started to think, is this really what I want? Do I want this amount of power? Can I take this amount of responsibility? Do I really need a fucking set of IDs besides my school ID?!?

By the time I was about to turn 18, I was slowly accepting my fate and preparing myself for the amount of stress and pressure I’m about to get into. I started setting short-term goals, goals I wish to accomplish before I officially graduate from my teen years. I became eager to experience things, explore new boundaries, and just be out there and enjoy the remaining days of what seems to be then, my freedom. I tried a lot of things, majority of which I failed, but I accepted the failures, nevertheless. I committed mistakes, made choices that didn’t produce the best results, and rushed into a lot of decisions without taking things into consideration, nor taking a step back to contemplate on how the outcome will be.

It was fun, exhilarating and quite refreshing to be honest. It got me excited to take on a new day, something I rarely felt the years back; but it was reckless, and most of all, it felt unnatural. Everything was so fast-paced, it felt rushed, somehow forced, to the point that there are days I just sit and think to myself, am I really doing this because I want to, or because I just feel pressured to do so? I end up questioning the fulfillment I get from the experiences and wonder, am I really doing this for myself, or is it to feed the constant pressure of my youth? To make me feel I actually did something with my teenhood, and accomplished a lot of things in an early age. because, let’s be honest, didn’t we all want to be that overachieving teenager we see on magazines or hear about on the news, for once in our life?

My road to 21 was basically a roller coaster ride. I did things I never expected I would do--of peer influence, media, or just purely pressure. I let things influence my decisions and people manipulate my actions. Remember when they said “Do your thing and don’t let anyone dictate you” they’re right, it’s not just some cliche quote you stumble upon google or your timeline. Do I wish I’ve took that advice more seriously back then? Yes, but do I regret having to learn the hard way? No. I took it as a blessing, because without those circumstances I would most definitely still be that guy who lives to please for the wrong reasons and therefore be another wasted youth abducted by the sick system that is today’s generation.

With all that pressure and the sudden influx of responsibilities that came with turning 21, I felt nervous, scared, to say the least. Imagine being thrown into a room and be forced to take a test you don’t even know of and be expected to get perfect results. You end up questioning yourself and all the things you’ve learned from school and ask why adulting 101 isn’t part of any curriculum. You feel depressed seeing people of your age doing good so far and there’s you, still figuring out how to ask for an extra tissue at a fast-food chain. It’s crazy.

But one thing I learned is that I’m not alone. A lot of us, if not all, went through this phase, the adjustment from a stubborn teen to a full-functioning adult. Some may have mastered it earlier than most of us but what’s comforting is that we all are just figuring out how things go, and this goes on forever. Nobody has perfected the craft and that’s okay. I’ve always thought that I’m not prepared for the responsibilities--and never will I be, and that I don’t know how to handle adult situations, but the thing is, there’s a possibility that the person beside you is feeling the same way; and if that doesn’t reassure you that everything will be fine, then I don’t know what will.

Eventually, everything will fall into place, it might seem hard for now, maybe even impossible, but hey, you got through high school didn’t you? that’s some hell, and if you got through all that drama and bullshit, then you can surely adult lol kidding aside, what I just wanna say is that I may sometimes look like I know what I’m doing, but trust me, I don’t. as well. We’re all just learning here every step of the way, we will commit mistakes, and that’s okay, that’s part of the process. What we shouldn’t forget is to enjoy and just live while we’re at it. Inside, we’re all still the kids that we were, and we’ll always be that “clueless adult looking for an adult without realizing you’re actually that adult but you still look for an adultier adult, someone better at adulting than you” adult. you feel me? haha

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Photography | Kea Miguel

Styling/Editing | Mike Miguel

Special thanks to New Era Caps PH & Cee Market

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Long time ago, when rock concerts was at its peak, where crowds flock to sing along –and recording every highlight was the least of their priorities. Band tees would symbolize one’s fandom. not only is it your average overpriced cotton tee, but it signifies one’s interest to a certain degree, sort of like a badge of loyalty. I mean what better way to say ‘I actually went to their concert’ than a shirt that says you did.

Fast forward to 2016, where we line up for concerts to be in a sea of smartphones and be surrounded by people who’s most likely there for the sake of posting about it; the then-sacred band tee is now just another piece of clothing that gives anyone an easy ticket to looking cooler and more ‘badass’ than they actually are. Do you really think that hot instamodel on instagram has Slayer on her music library? I bet not.

With a multitude of fast-fashion brands hungry for the newest trend, I wouldn’t be surprised to see a couple of these shirts on store displays and digital campaigns anytime soon. Just recently, H&M released a collection of vintage merch-inspired tees featuring the classics like Nirvana, Gun’s & Roses, and Metallica. Pretty sure we all saw that coming. But as it normally goes in the fast-fashion scene, with every trend that crosses over to the mainstream department, their expiry date unfortunately comes with them. It’s only a matter of time until a new fad falls prey to the ruthless industry and be labeled as another disposable trend.

This movement, similar to how it is with the skateboarding community, may cause an uproar from the real metal and rock fanatics, and be considered as another case of cultural theft ...buuuut that’s another story, something too critical for me to delve into for now haha

Jacket, Zara

Top, Joaquin Menswear

Sweatshorts, Zara

Old Skools, Vans

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No ice humanoids here.

You’re probably wondering what this post have to do with the title’s reference, sorry to disappoint your eager GoT hearts, but there won’t be any season 7 promos here; just some guy too lazy to think of a blog title for an outfit entry. My apologies, but hey since you’re here, might as well read on and see more of this look. Clickbait much? lol

If you noticed, I’m really into the whole over-sized movement that is currently making waves in the fashion scene. From loose tops to XXL trousers, looking through catwalks and magazine spreads lately would make you want to get a size larger or two when buying garments for the season.

Wore my black crew neck long tee from Cee Market(@_ceemarket on Instagram) and paired it with my oversized trousers from Exclusively His. Now I know Exclusively His is known for custom-made, tailored-to-perfection pieces, but it’s fun to shake it up sometimes for a fresh and more trendy approach. I also got the hems slightly frayed, to give it a raw touch.

I threw in my white denim jacket from Zara that had this tattered details that I thought would complement well with the raw hem of the trousers. I wanted the outfit to look dapper but at the same time laid-back, and I think the raw details gave that right amount of unpolished vibe, enough to make the whole ensemble look somehow effortless.

Top, Cee Market

Jacket, Zara

Trousers, Exclusively His

Loafers, Zalora

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It’s never too early to give hints.

Ever been in those days when you scroll through your favorite online stores and can’t help but make a list of things you’d want to wake up to on your birthday--or if you’re lucky-- under your tree this holiday season. You’re not alone my friend, we’ve all been that kid writing to Santa on Christmas eve and had our share of make-a-wish moments at least once or twice. Thankfully, Shopback’s cooking up something for us that can possibly turn this daydreaming session of ours a reality. read on to find out..

In case you didn’t know, Shopback.ph --which you can know more about on my recent entry, here--is having this really cool contest for bloggers. Basically, all you have to do is to create an entry featuring a list of products from Shopback’s extensive list of merchants that you’d want to have, much like a wishlist; Include why you want them, and how you can save on these items if you get it through ShopBack, and stand a chance to get your hands on each one, or even more! Easy right? Now if that doesn’t make you compose a wishlist stat, then I don’t know what will. 

By now, you’re probably starting to create an entry inside your head, or maybe even picturing yourself wearing every single thing from your list already--like me haha. but hold your horses for now and spare a few minutes to go over their full mechanics and learn more details about the contest, here. 

Here’s my wishlist:

1.  ASOS Wool Mix Overcoat In Khaki

Overcoats may not be considered a staple from where I live but that doesn’t stop me from wanting to have this piece I came across on ASOS a few days ago. Besides the color, which obviously is my favorite, its basic silhouette and the material used made it a more perfect piece for the season.

2.  ASOS Faux Suede Biker Jacket In Tan

This one caught my eye while browsing through jackets on ASOS. It’s a new take on the classic motorcycle jacket. Lesser on the tough appeal but a notch higher on the trendy side, this jacket gave that right amount of update we all wanted for this wardrobe staple, and I sure want to get my hands on it, asap.

3.  Dr Martens Original 3-Eye Shoes 11838002

I have always been on the look out for the perfect derby shoes and this Dr Martens pair I found on ASOS might be the answer. It has the classic shape that I love but with the signature sole that the brand is known for which I think gives the pair that unique touch.

4.  ASOS Bomber Jacket With MA1 Pocket In Camel

Unless you’re living under a rock, you’d know by now that bomber jackets are the new black. Everyone from famous celebs, to our favorite online personalities are throwing these bulky cover-ups over their outfits, may it be formal or casual. A bomber jacket can take any look to another level much as this white number I stumbled upon ASOS.

5.  ASOS Leather Biker Jacket With Belt in Black

This is a no-brainer. A black leather jacket is one wardrobe essential worthy of your investment. It never goes out of style and is considered a classic. I have a few leather jackets on my rack but I’m still on a hunt for the perfect motorcycle jacket, and so far this one from ASOS might be the answer to my James Dean daydream fantasies.

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Boracay like you’ve never seen before.

Back then, powdery white sand and crystal-clear shores would come to my mind whenever I think about Boracay. An escape from the hustle and bustle of the city, and definitely a place for tranquility; Years passed, and a few labor day weekends later, the island we all know and love has been stripped off it’s pristine roots and is now an emerging destination for nightlife and hangover-guaranteed rendezvous.

Last month, I was Invited over to the island again with my fellow bloggers but this time, for a relaxing and a more private experience in the comforts of this premiere beach sanctuary, Rieseling Boracay. Located at Bolabog beach, The resort offers majestic beachfront views minus the bustling crowd, giving us a pleasant ambiance of the island life that Boracay is originally known-for.

The whole place is designed to reflect the Filipino lifestyle, with insta-worthy suites uniquely decorated with indigenous furnishings and interiors, the resort would surely capture the eyes and hearts of any self-proclaimed instahoe, much like myself haha

One thing I love about this resort is the privacy it offers. Since it isn’t located at the main beaches, it gives its guests the same white beach views sans the busy crowd that’s always present when you’re staying on the other side of the island. With the resort offering only around 13 different but equally cozy suites, It almost feels like having a beach all to yourself!

In-house guests can enjoy the resort amenities including Rieseling’s very own Beach bar + Cafe--which in my opinion serves one of the best complimentary breakfast on the island, a swimming pool, meeting room, In-room massages, and my favorite, free WIFI. Also, guests can avail room service from 7am-10pm.

Another thing I love about the resort, is the location. It offers a tranquil atmosphere conducive to private bonding, yet, just a stone’s throw away from the famous white beach. So you can peacefully relax over their in-house cocktails at the pool area during the day, and go harder on drinks and dance the night away at the usual white beach clubs, like Epic Boracay. 

Sadly, I didn’t have any photos from our night out at Epic but it sure stood up to it’s name. We had the most epic time partying and drinking that got us into all kinds of (good)crazy, like crashing dance showdowns and inviting foreign strangers over our VIP table that the folks at Epic was kind enough to offer us--Thanks again! btw, if you’re wondering, yes, that turned out well. They’re actually some really cool foreign volunteers on a vacation. we still get in touch thru snapchat lol The night may have resulted to an epic hangover, but hey, It’s Boracay haha It was all worth it at the end, i should say.

I’ve also learned that Bulabog Beach is the island’s watersports capital, noted for its attractive, laid-back community vibe. So if you’re tired of the usual nightlife in Boracay, let the folks at Rieseling introduce you to other fun things you can do in the island; besides, the beach is just a few steps away from your room. Now who said staying on the other side of the island would be boring?

My blogger buddies and I got to try the Mermaid lessons all thanks to Rieseling Boracay in cooperation with the Philippine Mermaid Swimming Academy. It was initially offered to the ladies, and us guys got the paddle boarding lessons--which was also fun. but hey, who wouldn’t want to experience being a mermaid--or merman in my case, for once? HAHA

On the second day of our four-day trip, we were invited over for lunch at the Villa Contessa. It’s situated along a cliff on the east side of Boracay that gave guests of their balinese-inspired home a more stunning view of the Bulabog beach.

Besides the opulent interiors and picturesque views, the food as well did not disappoint. The owner was kind enough to cook it all for us, and you can definitely feel the love and passion in every bite you take on each scrumptious dish she place on the table. Tita Tootsy, as we call her, did not only offer good food, but entertainment as well. She always had interesting stories to tell and funny comebacks in between. Her energy was always so high and infectious, she’d get you dancing on your feet on a hot afternoon. I can definitely say that our trip wouldn’t be as fun and memorable without her.

To make our getaway more relaxing, we were all brought to the multi-awarded, Mandala Spa and Villas Boracay to experience their signature treatments and services. As someone who enjoys a good pampering session, I probably was the happiest to know about it being part of our itinerary.

The whole place is huge, and unlike the usual spas in the city, Mandala is more of an estate where you get treated to a villa of your own, one of many that spread around the lush-filled sanctuary, ensuring privacy and a more satisfying retreat.

On our third day, we got to have the famous Boracay Suncruiser all to ourselves. This was definitely one of the highlights of our trip, given that we got to spend the whole afternoon on board Boracay’s ultimate party boat with nothing but good food, good drinks and great company. The huge inflatable slide and the two-storey high jump-off pad made the experience even more fun and exciting. With all that going on, being stuck in the middle of the ocean surely never felt so good.

A lot of things happened in those four days and as much as I want to share every detail with you guys, I don’t think any of us would have the time and effort to read the whole thing lol but I sure am thankful to have been part of this, nevertheless. And as I end this entry, I would just like to give a shoutout to kuya Melo of Outoftownblog.com and the kind folks at Skyjet Airlines and Rieseling Boracay for an unforgettable trip.

Oh and to the cool #TitasOfBoracay aka the owners of Rieseling Boracay, can I just say that I never met any owner as welcoming and hospitable as you all are. Thank you for the fun conversations over your signature cocktails and delectable food that you all have prepared with love, and for bringing us around the island and introducing us to the other side of Boracay I never even knew existed. I could only wish to be as cool, fun, and energetic as you guys when I grow old lol Surely, I’ll never forget you guys, till next time!

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Rain, rain go away ..but not really.

Saying the weather’s pretty bad the past few days is definitely an understatement–that is, if you’re in Dagupan. I would’ve been somehow happy with the news if I was a student unprepared for a certain quiz, or a lazy-ass dodging a meeting that could’ve been just an email, but no. We’ve been experiencing heavy rains non stop in my city since the week started, and as a twenty-year old struggling through the early stages of adulthood, this is just not acceptable. With rising floods and heavy traffic everywhere, cancelled plans and postponed meetings, yes, it may bring in the layer weather we all know and love, but the rain just like to suck out not only my productivity, but my will to live as well. #halfjoke

Moving on, as stressful as it may be to go from one errand to another on this bipolar weather, my daily routine must go on. These are the days when I feel very thankful for the internet and the whole online technology thing we got going on. The privilege to tick things off our daily agenda with just a few taps on our phones, oh aren’t we lucky.

Not only does it help us with our errands but with our ‘me’ times as well–in my case, shopping! I think we could all agree that an online retail therapy session from time to time can cure a rejected output/proposal, a failed attempt on flirting with a potential cutie, or the usual feud with a marcos apologist on some comment box online, you know, the daily struggles. Online shopping is like that friend of ours who offers their food, and genuinely wants us to have some. In short, they’re God’s gift to man.

So a few days ago, I was scrolling through one of my favorite online shopping destinations, Zalora. It’s actually a thing of mine to visit from time to time and see If there’s anything worth adding to my cart or at least my wishlist. It’s an oddly satisfying process for me and somehow gives me joy despite knowing I won’t purchase most of the items I include on my list lol #virtualwindowshopping

Anyway, I stumbled upon this pair of shoes that I really liked and I knew I just had to have it, so being the compulsive shopper that I am, I instantly filled in the order form and clicked purchase. This may sound all typical–specially of me, and might get you wondering why the need to share this with you all, but unlike any of my past online purchases, I managed to save money while online shopping this time.

For those of you who still don’t know what Shopback is, it’s an app that gives you cashback rewards for your online shopping! Yes, you heard that right, it’s basically like being paid just for buying stuff you like, cool right? It’s very easy and convenient as well, You just browse through hundreds of their merchants and click on any store you like, you then get redirected to the selected merchant’s site(stay on that page all the way), shop as usual and make your purchase on the merchant’s site, and tadaa your cashback will be automatically added to your ShopBack account within 48 hours! So, remember the pair of shoes I mentioned? I got them at a steal thanks to Zalora coupon codes and the 12% cashback from ShopBack!

Coat, Zara

Buttondown, Topman

Pants, Uniqlo

Shoes, Zalora

So if ever you find yourself feeling guilty on splurging on another pair of white sneakers, maybe this will help HAHA but kidding aside, I really think Shopback.ph is a great app specially for us fashionistas trying to make the most out of our online shopping experience. You can look at all the fashion stores available on Shopback here!

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