ok time for a personal update ive decided to vent and post my top ten things i need if i were to pursue a relationship cause over the course of these past few weeks with friend input and personal experience i decided to list what i probably need in looking for that special someone...ok here goes.
1. i need someone close to my age maybe two to three years older to which i can share experiences with and various things that were around during our childhoods that we can relate to.
2. i live an active lifestyle i work, i play with my dog and i train in martial arts almost constantly so ill need a woman who can keep up with me and maybe have a little rivalry between us to see who can keep up, its basically something to spice the relationship up with.
3. theres a time for intimacy and a time for when we gotta do regular stuff like our jobs and if one or the other is doing important schoolwork privacy and alone time is key.
4. shes gotta like the same stuff i do cosplay, anime, video games and while my friends think thats impossible to find a woman like that i disagree when i was a purple belt in taekwondo i held my own against third and fourth degree black belts so dont tell me about odds.
5. craft and art time can be classified as intimacy time cause id like to see and compare both our works and get feedback from each other to better both ourselves.
6. we both have to be self sufficient in our own way no ones the breadwinner take turns making food, and do common sense housecleaning and the space that should only be cluttered is the cosplay sewing table and or the workbench cause not gonna lie ive never seen an artists station that wasnt spotless at all times unless it wa the end of the semester.
7. id also like to have someone open minded cause i really dont want a religious spouse cause from what ive studied of religion i respect it but it seems to cloud alot of common sense principles and if i had to explain this post would take all day.
8.going out would probably just be spontaneous but we gotta enjoy life but also if shes well trained at martial arts as me we also have to be cautious and synchronized.
9. we also both need to know when to put steel in each others spine to help each other both physically and mentally while i may suffer from anxiety and ocd we should be able to relate and try to research and unerstand each others mental capacity.
10. last but not least full communication of medical problems and past issues i want them to be up front and honest about everything cause i do not like suprises i understand if she does not want to tell me when first dating but if she decides to make a comittment ill be willing to listen to everything she has to say.
again this is just for venting purposes and i appreciate my followers for putting up with it but its something i need to get off my chest and ill save a copy for my notes. but again even if we dont talk on a regular basis thanks for listening. no back to our regularly scheduled program of exotic cars, bikes, anime and homestuck pics.
