#mindlessflare

[ticklish-me26]

What comes to mind when you see this?

AH JUMPSCARE 💀

Uhhh… maybe the fact that I will be a dumb giggly mess if that were to happen? I mean who said that? 😅

[aisabunnie]

in an answer you wrote to an ask, can i ask about when you said your man meets all your requirements in that department of your kink? i’m very curious to hear about details of that, but only if you’re comfortable! hope you’re well

Olo anon!

No worries, I'm happy to answer stuff about my side of kink stuff <3

I love getting tickle asks too but I'm getting more and more comfortable admitting JUST how kinky I am when it comes to my main kinks.

To preface things though, I still won't be sharing any pictures or videos without permission from him first. Consent is key in all relationships. <3

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To begin, my darling hubby is a bigger man. (I won't share his EXACT weight but he's a 4X in pants and 3X in tops)

I've always had a thing for bigger men and he is perfect in every aspect in that case. Don't get me wrong, fictional men with their chiseled abs and perfectly drawn bodies are hot as hell too. However, I learned the hard way in high school with an old friend of mine that abs are NOT comfortable to lay on OR touch for extended periods of time.

Hubby has the perfect squishy, comfy tummy that I am allowed to lay on, kiss, stroke and massage to my hearts content.

Secondly, and this is embarrassing to write, hubby knows DAMN. WELL. how to BELCH. (And yes, I say it like that ON PURPOSE). His all natural burps are just like the man himself, big. They're loud and sometimes, they echo.

HOWEVER

The ones he let's loose when he's forcing, are even BIGGER. Those echo, for sure. Admitting this is making me blush as I write...

Third, he's got INSANE control over his muscle control. Just to fuck with me, I'll be laying on his stomach and he'll swallow air just to make my face turn red.

I've also got him trained from the early years of our relationship to where thrusting into me during sex almost forces belches out of him. I shudder and moan when he does and he says I tighten up around him. Win win.

Fourth, I found myself a normally gassy guy to begin with. Aside from his belches, he rips ass just as much. While my ears appreciate the sound, my sensitive nose does not appreciate the smell. I'll admit, when we're together with our friends or if it's just us, we'll make a bunch of jokes if he does.

Unfortunately though, we have not managed to get him to rip ass during sex. That would be the one place that I would enjoy everything about it. But for some odd reason, his ass clamps shut when we're fxxking. Oh well...

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My face is bright red at this point, reading this back, but it's all 100% true.

So, long story short, he's perfect for me in that department.

Thanks for asking anon! Hope this satisfies your curiosity. <3

[aisabunnie]

You should tickle your hubby, and share the audio. Or a picture of you sitting on his feet. 👣 🪶 😈

Tempting....

Tempting offer, anon. VERY tempting...

However, like the good wifey I am, I won't share anything without his explicit consent. Sorry, loves. ;)

I'll keep teasing everyone with stories though. THOSE, I'm more than allowed to share...

<3

[aisabunnie]

Could we get a vivid explanation as to how you tickle your hubbys feet?

Like could you paint us a picture to see it through your eyes?

- 🫘

Hi Bean! Sorry for the SUPER late reply but my setup is MOSTLY complete so I'm back on computer answering these again!

So, I've got a story for you (and everyone else reading these)

Last night, my dear sweet hubby was being his usual bratty self. It REALLY gets on my nerves when he does this. I'm not physically strong, so I can't dominate him with sheer strength alone to make him relent.

But I know exactly which spots to hit with my relentless tickles to get him to yell "Mercy!"

If he gets to that trigger (it changes otherwise I'd give a better description here), my brain immediately goes to, "Okay, motherf*cker. You poked the bear. NOW, you're in TROUBLE."

So, without hesitation, I flip him over on his stomach if he isn't already. Then, I JUMP on top of him.

If I'm going for his back first, I sit right above or right on his ass.

If I'm going for his feet or thighs, I sit right on the backs of his knees.

Then, I ATTACK. No warning. No nothing. Laughter, screams and pleas fill the room.

With his back, it doesn't matter HOW I tickle him. His back is one of, if not THE, biggest weak spot he has. Slow, fast, whatever. He breaks in seconds!

With his feet, tickling them fast works. It works pretty well. But SLOW, MERCILESS tickles on his poor soles drives him UP. A. WALL.

So last night, he poked the bear. I flipped him over, jumped on his back and tickled the every loving SHIT out of his back. Unfortunately, since we now have neighbors in a much closer vicinity, I have to hold his face into the pillows as to not disturb them.

Hope that paints a picture for ya, Bean. Thanks for asking!!! <3

[aisabunnie]

heyy! do you still have a burp kink? i remember you from YEARSSS ago. i didn’t know your ao3 was still up! you’re a really good writer, you should start it back up! i only just re-found your page.

if the answer to my first question is yes, does anyone in your life know that you like this? i like it too honestly and have for years, but my biggest fear is anyone finding out. if anyone you know has found out, how do you deal with it?

OMG, hi!! This is my first time getting asked about my side of things versus my hubby's side so thank you!!

(EDIT: I didn't realize that this was going to be LONG. So, I apologize in advance but also thank you for sticking around to read the whole thing too!!)

To answer your first question, yes I am 100% an eructophiliac. Nothing makes me turn red faster than hearing a deep guttural belch from a person I'm attracted to. (I usually lean more towards guys for my eructophilia but once a blue moon a pretty girl will do it for me)

And hot DAMN my hubby meets all my needs in that department for sure 😊

To your second point, yes my ao3 is still active. However, I don't post as actively as I used to. I'm still writing it's just, ten years ago when I was a teenager, I had all the time in the world to write in between school assignments and whatnot. Now that I'm an adult who's currently looking for employment in a new apartment with my sweet hubby, I don't have the endless time I did. (Also, our computer isn't set up in the new apartment yet due to lack of space and lack of a proper desk)

To your second question, yes. My husband knows, my exes knew, a good handful of my friends know about it and so does my mother. Though, I'm sure she's forgotten about it/doesn't care to remember. My late grandmother, who I've talked about in a previous answer, also knew.

Thankfully, no one judged me when I told them. They kind of just shrugged their shoulders and moved on.

When I discovered my kink, it was in middle school. (I wanna say I was in my early teen years, possibly between 13-14ish)

The first person I told was my then boyfriend. He thought it was weird but didn't think anything of it. That didn't stop him from getting annoyed with it much later down the line when I would "overdo it" in our LARPing sessions. (Yes, I fully admit that I used to do this. I still do, to this day)

I was FORCED to tell my parents during that time (by parents I mean my mother and grandmother). They didn't understand the relevancy of knowing that information during the situation. They just shrugged it off. (I don't fully remember the circumstances of WHY I had to come clean. Trauma blocked out the memory and I don't wish to unbury it to find out once again)

Since then, I've told my two ex boyfriends before I met my hubby. I've also told a handful of my friends during truth or dare games. Again, met with the same shrug and, "Okay, cool. Next topic ."

Each time I've had to tell someone new, it's been insanely embarrassing for me. I don't even truly say the word in front of people. Thankfully, only my hubby notices that I don't say it.

But thankfully, like I said before, my friends are very chill and accepting. I've called them assholes before but they're very kind assholes xD

I've only had ONE person "find out" about my kink and that was one of my best friends in high school, ironically who found out via my ao3.

I had stayed up late the night before, finishing and posting one of my stories. Well, come the next day at school, we were in science class together. And, of course cause we were besties, we sat next to each other.

I tell her that I'm exhausted and she says, "Same! I stayed up LATE reading." So we talk about what she read. Secretly, I ignore the feeling of dread slowly washing over me cause there's no way, right?

WRONG.

She proceeds to tell me that she read a new story that pretty much described the story I just posted. The feeling of dread only got worse. I turned red, I felt so embarrassed, I wanted to crawl under the table and run out the door.

So I mustered up the courage and asked, very nervously, "Was it...called...THIS...perhaps...?"

And she immediately goes, "Yeah! That's it!!"

I wanted to jump out of my body and run as fast as I could away from the situation. But, that's not physically possible, as we all know.

So, with a lot of blushing, whining and embarrassment, I came clean to her. Because she's amazing, she just smiled and was like, "That was you?!? Lol, I thought the story was a bit weird but it's very well written!! Like, I thought it was hilarious!"

I thanked her for the compliment and we moved in with our high school careers. (She also proceeded to stalk my page until I took my long unintended hiatus).

So, long story short, yes I'm still here. I'm still active, I'm still very much into what I'm into. Granted, now that I'm married and we've been together for 6 years (and been friends for 10), I've gained more kinks since then. Same with him, of course.

But thank you for being a fan of this long! It feels unreal but thank you for reaching out!

Honestly, I'm with you though. One of my biggest fears still to this day is people finding out. I still, and forever, will have that fear of judgement. Thankfully, my outcomes have been positive and we've been able to just move on without an issue.

I do have to say though, (I wanna say I said this before in a previous ask but I'm not 100% sure... 🤔🤔🤔) some of the fandoms I used to write for, I am no longer in.

If you (or anyone for that matter) would like to know what fandoms I still/currently follow, feel free to ask!!

But thank you again, anon! I appreciate your question, just like everyone else who asks!

[aisabunnie]

Just a question:

Care for a kiss?

😚

You've gotta come over here first 😏😉

😘

👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨

[aisabunnie]

Dudette, your hubby’s a perv. 😆

I know 😉😋😈

Believe me, I'm no better off than he is. XD

But I still love him all the same ❤️🥰😍

[aisabunnie]

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It’s me again, Bean. Thanks for the nickname btw.

My question this time is do you ever have an urge to record you tickling your hubby and post it just to mess with him?

Like if he’s in a bad mood, or feeling down, just tickle the hell out of his feet to cheer him up or to make him say nice things about himself?

Just a thought I had.

Olo Bean :)

You're welcome for the nickname. :)

I actually have recorded him being tickled and his genuine laughter of his quote on quote "torture."

However, I will never post anything without his permission, whether that's videos, pictures or anything of the sort. He has told me that he is embarrassed of those videos because he hates the sound of his laughter. (I actually think it's quite cute but I get it. I hate the sound of my own laughter on camera too...)

But the thought has crossed my mind. Intrusive thoughts and all. I'd never go through with it though unless I have his okay.

If he's in a bad mood, like specifically after a hard day of work or whatever, what usually helps him is basic skin to skin contact. Just being in each others arms really helps.

THEN, I tickle him after he's feeling better...

It's very rare for him to say nice things about himself though. We both have this bad habit called self-esteem issues. So yeah....

Sorry for the overshare but thanks for asking, Bean. :)