I'm not really into anal at all. Not with women, not with men. Not giving, not receiving.
Have tried it, all ways, and didn't care for it. I think for that reason it took me a longer time than most to figure out that I was pansexual. Well that and I grew up in the church and was indoctrinated, which took time to unwind. Well also (shocker) I had bad experiences with men when I was young, so that also worked against me figuring it out. So yeah.
Also I'm fucked up in a lot of other ways too so what are ya gonna do.
I guess the point was, as to men, I'm what you'd call a "side." Though I've actually been with very few men in my life, I've been with more women overall. (Including 2 professed lesbians).
Ok thats enough. Have I mentioned I have ADHD?