[No offense, but you're looking really good today] hopefully I’m doing this right since it’s my first time sending one but I would like hiyoko,rantaro and tenko for this(I’m a boy and I know she dislikes them even tho she’s a comfort but if I can’t use tenko for this I’ll like Junko) anyways I need advice I’m starting to have a crush again on a great friend of mine but it’s kinda more deeply in love this time if that makes sense. And I have the urge to talk to him but I’m scared and nervous I might bore him or that he wouldn’t wanna talk even tho we have some or a lot of stuff in common I’m also nervous considering his best friend and I don’t really get along and he knows this and I’m nervous he might dislike me a little for it. And what makes it worse is that we only talk in the group chat not privately so it might seem weird.. there’s more to say but it’s kinda embarrassing hhhh
You’re taking the time to include me in this, even though I have no idea what to do when it comes to love? Wow, you really must be desperate then Anon, at least you didn’t ask for that clumsy Mikan. So you have a brain after all.
Well, I think you should be able to talk to him whether his stupid friend likes you or not, you aren’t talking to his friend, you’re talking to this guy you like. Right? I guess I can understand why you’re nervous, I’ve never had a crush on anyone, so I’m a little rusty on this kinda subject.
Since you have some common interests, don’t be worried too much about talking to him when it comes to those topics! Anyone with a brain cell can see that having mutual interests isn’t a bad thing, plus it can really help you have a conversation with them! And maybe you can learn more about him! It doesn’t matter what his friend thinks of you, you’re not trying to impress him. You’re impressing your crush, well, you don't have to try hard. He probably appreciates your presence! And if he doesn’t, I’ll bop him on the head!
Hey there anon, don't worry, you aren't saying anything worth embarrassment, I promise. Crushes are always an awkward experience, so don't worry, everything you're feeling is perfectly natural. Feeling nervous is definitely normal. Honestly, I think the first step is to sit down and think things through, as hard as it is. Maybe I'm just a total buzzkill, but I think it's almost always best to try and think about things so I don't end up rushing into anything. You've already done an awesome job of picking up on the pros and cons, and I'm proud of you for that. Honestly, I think you gotta try talking on him one on one before you can really do anything else. Just send him a dm involving an interest you have in common, and just see how it goes. The great thing about dm conversations is that you can think about what you say before you send it. I know, it's beyond scary, but I think that's the best next step.
Honestly, I think whatever happened between you and your friend should only impact you two, but I can't guarantee that this will be the case obviously. I don't know why you don't get along so there's not much I can say on this part. If he brings it up, talk it out, explain your side, answer questions, anything like that. It might not hurt to at least be nice to his friend too, just saying. Stuff like this is never easy, and honestly my advice might not work at all.
Just be sure to think with your head and not your heart. I know, I just went against every disney movie ever, but logic is the way to go, at least when things are starting out. Try to get to know each other more, and see how it goes from there. Good luck ok! Fingers crossed it all works out for you.
Even though you are a degenerate male, I guess I could still help you with this. Even males have feelings, after all.
Like Rantaro and Hiyoko said, it’s super great that you two have things in common! That way, you don’t have to worry about your crush being uninterested or bored! Talking to your crush is totally a way to get closer to him, and to see whether or not it would be a good idea to confess or not.
Although it might seem a little awkward at first, I think texting him in private is a good idea. Maybe you could send him a meme he might find funny to start the conversation. Like I said, it might be a little awkward at first, but it’ll be a really good way to get closer to him. And who cares if his friend doesn't like you? You and your crush’s friend don’t have to talk. After all, it your crush you want to talk to, and not the friend, right?
You can totally do this, anon!! I believe in you!!
