factives, it's okay to be a different gender and/or assigned sex from your source/counterpart. you are not being transphobic or intersexist for existing.
you're allowed to have a different assigned sex at birth and/or anatomy from them, whether perisex or intersex.
it's okay to be trans when they're cis. or cis when they're trans. or to be beyond those labels.
there's nothing wrong with you if you're a trans woman while the source is a trans man, or vice versa, or if you're genderqueer, nonbinary, or otherwise gender expansive, or any other combination.
you don't deserve judgment no matter what reason this gender difference came from. psychological resonant, past life, exomemories, trauma, or anything else.
it's not pluralphobic or "stealing resources" or "claiming to be oppressed" if your identity, labels, and/or experiences conflict with the rest of your system or the body.
please keep being you, and know you're worthy of respect, including for your canon-divergent gender(s), assigned sex, or lack thereof.
~ mod espresso and mod reaper [plain text: mod espresso and mod reaper]
