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Hi! Please drink water! Thank you!

[gen-z-culture-is]

Gen z culture is growing up with 90’s technology like vhs and dial up internet and then having a bunch of whiny adults sanctimoniously try to tell you that you can’t remember what it was like to use those things.

[cupheccdontdealwiththeshitposts]

Anyone. Say whomst'd've'ly'yaint'nt'ed'ies's'y'es with out messing up

do not underestimate him

[trigger-talk]

To the 🌾 anon who asked us about something:

Your request is absolutely valid, you’re not a bad person for having that trigger or wanting to have it tagged. We absolutely won’t publish your asks if you don’t want us too, and we’ll be here if you ever need more help.

-Mod Meep

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Just a small reminder

If someone you know has a trigger or asks you to tag a trigger, they do not owe you any explanation for why. They don’t have to explain their trigger to you or give you the backstory as to why they have it or anything. You don’t have to know that information to tag the trigger. Just please, be respectful of people and tag things for them without demanding to know why or making someone feel as though they owe you an explanation.

-Mod Meep

[trigger-talk]

Happy holidays to everyone. Wishing you a stress free season and some quality time with your chosen family.

[trigger-talk]

Do you have any tips for opening up with people? Like... It feels like all my relationships eventually get strained because I'm incapable of letting people know when I'm uncomfortable with something or when certain things bother me, so I just end up feeling hurt and distancing myself from them instead of working on those issues. It just... at this point it feels like the only way I could ever be close with someone is if they could read my mind or something. It's lonely.

I figured I’d let the professionals handle this one because I have less experience with it, so

how to talk to people and open up in the beginning

how to set boundaries 

more on how to set boundaries

ah frick what do I do about communicating feelings 

Also please note that for the above, one of the steps in this and in many articles is “understand your feelings.” Remember that “I don’t know,” “I’m confused,” and “This makes me feel a vague kind of negative way but I don’t know why” are all valid feelings. Understanding and expressing that you don’t understand your own feelings can help you and the other person(s) adapt and listen to you more, and you can do the same for them, even if you don’t have a true understanding of what is going on.

Hope this helps!

-Mod Meep 

[trigger-talk]

Hey guys

Remember that if you see a positivity, recovery, or healing type post, or a calming gif/image/video, feel free to submit it, tag this blog, or send it to one of the mods! We’d love to have more interaction with you guys and also it’s getting harder to find good posts to queue, we’d love the help.

-Mod Meep