I have seen a lot of people arguing over shadowvanilla and p*relily again. I am so mad that we are comparing who was "meaner" based on who people saw harassing more from which side. THEY WERE BOTH MEAN. EQUALLY!!!! CAN WE STOP COMPARING EVERYTHING? IT JUST MAKES EVERYTHING WORSE!!!! NONE OF YOU ARE RIGHT OR INTELLIGENT BECAUSE NO ONE SEES HOW COMPARING STRUGGLES ALWAYS LEADS TO MORE STRUGGLES.
AND ALSO? IF YOU PERSONALLY SAW MORE HATE COMING FROM ONE SIDE THAT DOESNT MEAN THAT SIDE IS ALWAYS MORE HATEFUL? IT DEPENDS ON WHAT YOU VIEW AND WHAT YOU INTERACT WITH ON PLATFORMS!
I know I usually defend shadowvanilla because I personally think p*relily, the ship NOT THE SHIPPERS, is unhealthy for both and a redeemed version of shadowvanilla would be 10x more beneficial for both sides then any p*relily. but in this, both sides are wrong.
AND DONT EVEN GET ME STARTED ON THE DUMBASS STEREOTYPES WE'RE PULLING OUT OF OUR ASSES FOR NO REASON OTHER THEN TO HATE AAAAGHH NOT EVERY SHADOWVANILLA SHIPPER IS MISOGYNISTIC AND NOT EVERY P*RELILY SHIPPER IS HOMOPHOBIC AND STICKING TO THESE STEREOTYPES AND ANY STEREOTYPES ONLY CAUSES MISCOMMUNICATION. YOU PEOPLE THINK YOU'RE SO MORALLY SUPERIOR WHEN HALF OF THE THINGS WE ACCUSE EACH OTHER OF NEVER HAPPENED. 99% OF THE DRAMA IN THE CRK FANDOM IS FAKE SHIT.
also, if I have ever made a post about how p*relily is worse, I fully acknowledge that and honestly I'm disappointed in myself for falling victim to some of this bullshit. cuz I'm pretty sure I have. but I realize I might have been too harsh sometimes. I think a lot of my opinions have changed.