poc being unable to be in front of things like "poc mods" isn't people being finicky. when used that way it stops being person 1st language which has historically been used to dehumanize marginalized groups. aside from a grammar thing it's to maintain person 1st language & keep poc safe. some may see it as asinine but historically racism is facilitated by removing person first language which is very important even if it seems small. dismantling racism starts w microaggressions which this is.
(DIFFERENT ANON) that anon about people being “finicky” about it is extremely reductive of other peoples feelings (like mine as a person of color). person first language is essential and not understanding “poc” as being person first language is a part of using it incorrectly being a microaggression. little things like this are still important. it’s not being finicky. it’s paying attention and righting wrongs that have historically led to bigger racist issues regarding dehumanization.
hi!! i certainly agree that people correcting ryker and my language isn’t “finicky” as the previous anon put it. this is why i encouraged other people to message us if they knew how we could better answer/respond to things with regards to race, as we strive to do so in the most accurate and non-offensive way possible. it was an oversight on my part for even publishing that anon (i have deleted it now) and i am very sorry if it hurt you. thank you both for taking the time to send these messages, as i now know to be more vigilant for the sort of offensive language that the anon used. it is very important to me that this blog is seen as a safe space, so i really, really appreciate you telling me when we do/post something offensive so we have the chance to make it right. <3
(also: @silvaer sent us THIS post, so ryker and i will both be following its example)
Hey, different mod here(I didn’t see the anon message, but heard about it from Archer), I really appreciate & agree with you- person 1st language is important and necessary, I’ll make sure that we stay on top of that while modding this blog. I know that opinions on language can butt heads a lot, but between what you’ve said and from what I’ve seen online we should (and will!) be maintaining person first language as it is the accepted + correct form. I’m sorry for the confusion between me and Archer. Seriously, thank you for this and thank you for calling this to attention so we can maintain it in the future.
(We’re both white as fuck so I really value+respect the people calling us out about it and the patience of the people doing so because I know how tiring this can be tbh)