Jul 19
How do you ask someone without putting them on the spot?
Cause when I ask things, for example, "can I sit with you?" to my friends, they could think it'd be mean/rude to refuse (I'd have absolutely no problem, that's why I'm asking, but I dunno how they feel), and so say yes, even if they don't feel like it
How could I change my wording to make it feel less pressuring to say yes? And more likely get people to be honest?
#The bird spoke#I genuinely would prefer them to be honest#Even if they're mean and/or rude about it#Cause I don't understand social signs as well as I wish I did so I might miss the “don't talk to me”#Or I'm just overthinking again and they truly have no problem with me#How do you#Is there anything I should tag?#It's not a vent#That's for sure#Mostly asking for#Advice#Social advice#But i dunno tumblr tags that well at the moment