Just a reoccurring thought I've been having lately
I’ve been thinking lately about wanting to move out but then I quickly realize
1. I don’t have a job.
2. I’m going to be starting school soon.
3. I’m pretty young.
Moving out with my boyfriend at 19 just sounds stupid and naive. I want to at least finish school. Our relationship is serious and I don’t want it to be ruined because of the stress of paying bills etc. ect. I think it would be just a smart idea to finish two semesters up and later down the line probably move in with just a friend (that friend being a girl).
My mom and I went to go pick up my sister and a co-worker (I’m going to call her K) from the mall. Once she got dropped off my mom started asking my sister questions about her. Turns out her co-worker is 20 years old and lives on her own with her boyfriend. My mother seemed okay with her but up until that point she shook her head and said
Mom: “Why would you want to live a premarital life?”
“She’s too young, she needs to explore and enjoy her life.”
My sister told her the reasoning for that was because K and her family don’t get along and that she’s been living on her own for a while now. I guess I understand my mother’s concerns and took it to a personal level. I think us moving out is going to be a hard pill for her to swallow.
