#mrsphillipgraves

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my friendo on twitter drew this out of nowhere and I’m so 😭😭😭 I love my war criminal husband so much I had to bake him into a cookie bc I miss him fr ☹️🩷

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do you think phillip would be a more trad husband, like traditional values (woman stays at home / man works)?

love your work xx

Definitely not, he definitely wants a wife who has traditional values, but he doesn’t believe in the, “woman stays at home and the man works”.

Graves has met multiple working women in his career, from his time in the military to Farah, Roze and more. He would absolutely love it if his s/o was a soldier and would work alongside him, in fact he would kill for an s/o like that because she could travel with him and stay with him wherever he is.

Though does that mean he wouldn’t be okay if his wife wanted to be an housewife? Absolutely not, he would be happy with whatever his wife wants for herself, what I am trying to say is that he wouldn’t hold a specific belief against her and want her to be a certain way, she can be whatever she feels the most comfortable and happy as, he would be just as happy if his wife wanted to be a housewife as he would be if she wanted to work alongside him.

Even though he would want his wife to hold traditional values because he does and he grew up in such, he wouldn’t want her to be any certain way when it comes to working and being a housewife, he would be perfectly fine and happy with whatever his wife decides is best for her. 🩷

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would phillip graves allow his shadow wife to still be friends with 141 after the betrayal? like would she still be able to talk to kate or soap etc?

Now Graves isn’t one to be controlling, he wouldn’t tell his wife, “you cannot speak with them”, but he would dislike it very very much if she did and question her loyalty. Most people don’t understand just how big of a deal that whole situation was for both, Shadow Company and the 141, Graves obviously really dislikes the 141 after they tried to kill him, and considers them an enemy.

When I speak of how much Graves values loyalty when it comes to his significant other, I am not just talking about flirting with other guys or cheating, but also situations like this. He wants an absolutely devoted and loyal significant other. The “Your enemy is my enemy” kind, and he is the same way back, it is definitely not one sided at all.

If his significant other was still speaking with the 141 after all that’s happened, it would lead him to question her loyalty to an extreme level, because that is his enemy, even if things did die down after awhile, he would still not be okay with his significant other remaining contact with the 141. Also, I personally feel even the 141 would not want to remain contact with her as she is Graves’ s/o.

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there’s something inside you, it’s hard to explain…

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and the best husband award goes to,

Phillip Graves 🩷

(grafia is our ship name, my name is

Afia, so Graves + Afia = grafia 🥺)

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i am open to taking requests about topics involving Graves that you guys would like to hear me yap about 🩷

I can yap about pretty much anything when it comes to him so don’t be shy 😭🫶🏽

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“Though he is a black heartened man, the mere thought of her brings a gentleness to his rugged soul; she’s the one person who sees the softness within him, a softness he shows to no one else.”

ps, a little insider on this : the first time I saw this scene, it felt like ***I*** was meeting him, so I remembered that vision and vibe, and turned it into an edit, and this is what came out. <3

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touch starved Phillip Graves x GN!Reader headcanons <3

he definitely struggles with physical affection at first, you’re the one who initiates physical affection during the start of your relationship, (subtle things, like holding hands, or giving him a pat on the shoulder) even just that is so comforting to him, now imagine when you give him a hug for the first time, I imagine this man hasn’t been hugged properly for years, he would be melting in your touch, he would also be thinking about it and smiling for the next few days.

he would slowly start getting used to it, he would start getting used to you hugging him whenever he’s under a lot of stress, or just simply holding his hand and speaking to him whenever he starts feeling a bit overwhelmed about things

eventually, he finds himself seeking your comfort and affection whenever he’s under any sort of distress, and because of that, he would slowly start feeling more and more comfortable with physical affection, he would be the one initiating the hugs, and trust me, he would be hugging you ALL the damn time, would not be able to catch a break. aside from hugging, he would always be touching you in some way, if you’re sitting together, he most likely has his hand on your shoulder, or resting on your thigh,

when you two are walking together he always has his hand around your waist or is holding your hand tightly. he is also definitely coming up behind you whenever you’re cooking and hugging you from behind and resting his head on your shoulder, and you bet a lot of conversations would happen while he is too.

he is also practically begging you to sit on his lap, he loves it when you rest your head on his chest and lean into him, it makes him feel so at home and comfortable, gives him cuteness aggression towards you too, coming to that, if you’re ticklish, he is 100% tickling you.

he is sitting next to you no matter where y’all are, if you two are somehow not sitting next to eachother, he will come over and sit next to you, he wants to be close to you at all times.

he nuzzles his head into the crook of your neck whenever you guys are cuddling, or just hugging, it’s his favorite thing to do, he loves the smell of your perfume too, he loves everything about you at this point.

forehead kisses are a must, he will be giving you forehead kisses whenever, it’s the sweetest thing ever, let’s say he is heading out somewhere, leaving to get groceries? “I’ll be back in a bit sweetheart” (*forehead kiss*)

he’s the type to play with your hair, tucking loose strands in, or just overall running his hands through your hair, he loves the feel of it.

100% kissing your cheek at all times, he loves how soft your cheeks are. Definitely would blush if you kissed him on the cheeks tho, or most importantly pinched his cheeks. Red like a tomato.

this man also 100% likes touching your fingers whenever you hold hands, he is definitely moving his thumb half the time because he loves the feel of your hand wrapping around his, it’s just so sweet to him.

most importantly,

he loves you for who you are, he takes care of you, he protects you, you’re the most valuable person on earth to him, he is always so soft around you, you’re the one person on earth he feels safe around, you’re his home, you mean everything to him.

when Phillip Graves loves, he loves deeply and truly.

end of post ♡.