wait, hang on, you identify as multisexual? /pos as in, like, no specific mspec label? could it also mean identifying a bit with each mspec label a bit? or identifying mostly with one but relating to others a bit too? and could it be used for alterous attraction too? because if so, then i may be thinking of changing my bi alterous label to something similar but else. /gen 💜💛💚🖤
Yes!! I go by panromantic and multisexual! You are right on a little bit of all of it. I used to identify as just bi but then I realized how much I related to so many different mspec labels. I relate to labels like bi, pan, omni, ply, homoflexible, heteroflexible, queer and those are just off the top of my head. I used to identify as bi because it is understood by a lot of the community as an umbrella term. However, it isn’t the best umbrella term because of its vast history and how people relate to it as with every word. The Trevor Project started using multisexual as the umbrella term for attraction to more than one gender so I think it is a great hope for the future for it to be well known within the community within due time. A good reference for my understanding of multisexual would be the comic of the youth with a lot of labels (pictured as flags) that continuously pile up and are harder to hold, but then the flags *poof* into the umbrella word queer and the person is happy. I relate to pan specifically a lot, but I enjoy the other labels and my most relatable is subject to change. I feel like I feel all of it or a lot of it on different levels and at different times. I would naturally think since multisexual can mean just sexual attraction or an umbrella for all possible variations of attraction related to more than one gender that you could use it as a term for yourself , if this is what you are referring to. And you could also use multialterous with no problem considering that is the specific word for alterous attraction to more than one gender. 😊 Thank you for asking! I’m happy to hopefully help you. You label yourself by what feels right💜💖🧡💛💚💙
