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it depends which are the two cultures like are they both mainly asian ethnicity? or asian and white/ europpean? black and hispanic? etc. Everyone is different from seeing the previous two my case is that I'm half filipino and half finnish so half asian and half white. I personally feel kinda alienated and not ___ enough to really fully connect to either.... I have dealt with racism and other bs because of who I was born into.
I was born in finland and lived here all of my life, I can't speak tagalog but I've visited the philippines often and I know the history of it, the traditions etc. My family life is quite multicultural but there was a period of my life that because finland is still not so diverse I grown to hate myself and tried to be as white as possible lol. just to fit in. If you want to read more stories about being brought up in different cultures, check out: @ weareallmixedup
funny enough finnish isn't my first language either, it's english so even that makes me more alienated that I don't even feel like I belong here because I have an accent and I look foreign to everyone and with the neo nazism shit going on here it kinda gets lonely...
First of all thank you for describing me your situation so in detail!! I never thought about the fact that this situation can have such an impact and different results based on the two cultures in the equation. I’ve heard of another person who had the same feeling of alienation and that had a hard time when it came to like...belonging to either of the 2 and that’s honestly one of the reasons i was asking this. It must be really tough, because I know how important my culture is for me as a person :( Thank you for the rec, I’ll definitely check that blog out!! And also thank you so so much again for sharing this with me, I’m sorry to hear that the situation is so difficult for you ;-;