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A non-negotiable.
One of the key differences between a person with Narcissism and a person with healthier ego is that the Narcissistic person is very unlikely to want to genuinely resolve conflicts or problems with family, friends or partners.
Resolving a conflict, for the narcissistic, is just being “right”, and the other person being “wrong”. Regardless of what has happened, what’s been going on, what the type,of relationship is, shared experiences, anyone’s character, shared past, etc. And, regardless of what the conflict or problem is about.
And if they’re being told, no matter how gently, that they did or said anything that wasn’t perfectly okay, justified, or right, they will usually turn it around on the other person and accuse them of being wrong, dramatic, unfair, hyper-sensitive, or even of lying or aggression.
(So if they step on your foot, and you say “ow!” they’ll just accuse you of being in the way, of being sensitive and dramatic, or of trying to make them out to be a bad guy, and never just simply say “sorry”).
While the person with healthier ego and emotional or mental health will value at least the other person’s general well being, even if they aren’t in a closer relationship or association with them. And if it is a closer connection, they’ll value the other person, the relationship, and the other’s well being. And so they’ll be much more likely to want to genuinely resolve conflicts or problems, and with consideration for all involved.
- Sanctuary for Awareness and Recovery, Facebook.com
No amount of effort on my part will ever make up for the lack of yours.. It takes two to build. Reason with truth.
Discernment in Relationships: Knowing When Effort Is No Longer Mutual
Not every relationship ends because of a blow-up. Some end because effort quietly stops being shared.
No betrayal.
No dramatic fallout.
Just one person carrying the emotional weight while the other grows comfortable receiving.
Discernment is recognising when imbalance is no longer a phase but a pattern.
This article is about noticing without self-erasure. About understanding when continued effort becomes compensation instead of care.
All relationships move through seasons. There are moments when one person carries more because the other is overwhelmed. That is not the iss
Through Actions and not just words. Can only be done if done right.
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Connection alone is not enough, Emotional maturity and awareness is key to maintaining the relationship. It takes two to make it work.
