myaliasisbones replied to your post “Friends with husbands are so lame…It’s becoming increasingly clear...”
oh maaan, one of my good friends since middle school is getting married next year... im scaredddd
Honestly, it can go either way. I have 3 close friends who have gotten married in the past 3 years. The one I've known the longest (since we were 3, I was her maid of honor, etc) and I are as close as ever but she lives out of town (she was out of state until recently). The one I was next closest to (we met in 5th grade, I was a bridesmaid) is the worst. She'll complain that we never see each other but whenever I try to make plans with her they're busy (and when I say busy, it's sometimes "he's putting up a new fan so I need to be here" or "I can't leave him alone for dinner" type stuff). The last one has always been closer with the 2nd one than me (which is fine) but they only want to do stuff on like a Sunday night or at the very last minute (which will be even harder when I live on the other side of town).
Anyway, I wasn't intending to write all that out but basically, I don't think it's inevitable. Just frustrating.
