Im so tired of everyone fn setting higher moral expectations for the oppressed (hi me helloo) than the oppressors. When they "apologize" for causeing so much of our suffering and im supposed to encourage change and not still be mad and not trust them.
Like wow o fucking kay they can all support a cause that actively harms me to this very day but if i make fun of them for crying and going "SOWWY" when things start to affect THEM its wrong and i should be nicer.
The oppressors arent the ones who need grace I AM . BC IM THR ONE THAT SUFFERED FOR WHAT THEY DID !!! WHY IS THAT RESPONSIBILITY ALWAYS ON US ! im allowed to be upset and maybe thats not MORALLY OBJECTIVELY RIGHT but fucking hell we're always held to a standard that if you, a minority the world is trying to erase is anything less than perfect you are GOING to become a statistic . And then we have to forgive everyone else for making it this way for us. Just so they can continue.
Keep making our problems insignificant until we believe they are, keep trying to make US look like we're on equal grounds, keep making us look like we're both the same just to ultimately treat us like animals. Sick of it. And make it look morally right. Morally correct. Force everyone to reblog this sentiment. Keep us down to feel better abt yourself for doing the right thing. You're nothing but a pawn in their game and you keep fucking playing along and falling for it and continuing this. STOP. AND THINK. for a second okay? Does this make sense? Stop pressuring ppl into reblogging shit they dont understand bc it sounds good. You are excercising the same exact tactic the oppressors use on us. Im so,, so tired man.
And i mean ANY situation there could be an oppressor. A victim and an abuser . This shit always happens i literally have 2 deal w ts everyday . Stop listening 2 them. You dont have to forgive anyone. Your saftey and your care is more fucking important than whoever hurt you. It DID happen. And you deserve to be FULLY. FN. RECOGNIZED. I cant stress that enough. Literally i still get tricked into feeling bad. Dont feel bad. Never feel bad 4 what happened to you.
Btw abt "turn the other cheek" religioners uhh i have nothing 2 say to u. Believe what u believe in, this sentiment just gets weaponized alot and i needed 2 say this to . Idk make ppl aware. But do what u think is best idk. Just dont weaponize it ig. Idk what the solution to this is religiously