#neke

[lapsus-maja]

Neke najlepse ulice moras i da zaobidjes.

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Slika u pozadini by: @princ-belog-grada

[life-is-a-bit]

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To kdyby tohle vyšlo, to by byla jiná paráda. Tak uvidíme.

[nevelegy]

[exyu-rock-lovers]

Neke tuge nikad se ne prebole, ubit će me zbog nje stvari lagane...

Tutti frutti - Stvari lagane

[tswatch]

I'm going to uni next year and two friends want us to have an apartment together. To they are not people I trust fully and want to live with. But I know them and would be comfortable. I could live alone in a dorm which would help me meet new people. If I decide to live with my friends I think if might make my depression worse. And living alone would help me go out of my shell and interact with new people. But my friends will hate me if I decide to drop out of their plans. -neke

It sounds like you are rather clear about what will be best for you and that is to live alone. I think that it is a really good thing that you know what you need and you are aware of what you require. However, I understand that you feel stuck in a tough position where you don’t know how to reject your friends.

Perhaps you can give them an explanation that will satisfy them and not make them feel like it is because you dislike them? What about explaining that you really need your personal space for your mental health? Or maybe you can say that you wish to get a different apartment because you prefer another location, or that you want to find a less costly place to stay?

At the end of the day, it is very good that you know what is best for you. I truly believe that you should do what you need to do, regardless of how people may react although of course we can do our best to mitigate the negative responses from others. But caring about others does not mean that we sacrifice our own well-being, and it seems like agreeing to living with your friends would really do that for you.

All the best and please do take care of yourself; I am sending good thoughts your way!

- Charissa