#neptune asks

[ashey-did-owt-wrong]

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[gg-astrology]

Hii! I was wondering about my rx neptune conjunct his sun and rx venus. I've read from a few sites that this conjunction can lead to disillusionment, like putting each other on a high pedestal and gloss over things to not disrupt the fantasy. If it's not too much, may I ask if you have any suggestion to overcome this aspect in synastry?? Thank youu. Hope you have a good day!

Hey there! 💙 Ooooh great question💙💙

Help with Neptune Aspects in Synastry ⬇️

The first thing is to have a realistic understanding of what we can give, and what we cannot give? 💙 

Generally this question is met with ‘well, I’m open to anything. It’s contextual/subjective, I’ll face it when it happens/I’ll let them know’ -- but what we’re trying to do here is to lay down some ground work so we can proceed with expectations from both partners (on equal grounds and have communication that is effective) 💙

See, sometimes we’re prone to speaking/talking about things when it happens which can lead to distress for the other side (it’s normal, we’re humans who can sometimes base a lot of things on precedent experience/behavioral patterns. Sometimes we make subconscious assumptions that puts our energy/emotions at risk when it doesn’t ‘meet’ the other person )💙

So preparing in terms of expectations and communicating on our parts-- it’s better to stay realistic as to who we are and communicate that across efficiently 💙

That’s not to say we cut them off cold turkey ( ‘no let me explain, this is who I am’ -- which is good, ideally. But sometimes it can evoke an emotional/defensive response from the other person)--  

Rather ask them to not take certain flaws too seriously and to collaborate on healthy personal development together (dealing with the problem/troubles in the relationship effectively, both of you shared together-- rather than say defending/stating ourselves first-- if that makes sense?)💙

Like if say they’re feeling some type of way about how we’ve ‘changed’ or somethings we’ve done that they used to be ok with/thought they were prepared for -- meeting each other half-way can help with adjustments and working on how to progress together can help as well (collaborative efforts and seeing the bigger picture, approaching things with a level of personal maturity can help as well) 💙

The key goal and idea here is adjustments and listening/communicating with each other 💙For the Neptune person themselves-- knowing how to guide the personal planets person through the relationship is the goal for you 💙

For the personal planets person, understanding that because you have your own reality and they have theirs-- and yes when it’s high it’s super great, but we’re trying to work on the lows and how to get through that/combat it as well 💙 

Understanding that the realities are sometimes different can help with being open-minded and listening/continuously learning about each other still 💙💙 

The point of these aspects are that we never truly ‘own’ another person nor do we ‘know’ them better than they do -- so listening, learning, adjusting and being open-minded is part of the deal 💙

Healthy breathing space can help between partners, to pull back against desires to be co-dependent in a way 💙 

For both individuals, making sure to deal with things emotionally is important as well-- as in, be understanding and tolerant (patience) with each other’s emotions, accept them and try to support them to a better place (better development) 💙 This can be incredibly useful for both partners 💙💙

I think the main idea here is that there’s a power-dynamic sometimes with Neptune aspects--- because the personal planets person is influential and the Neptune planet person is like ‘the good guide’ -- 

There are intersectional themes within the dynamic such as your emotionality levels, your dreams/desires, your sentimentalism/togetherness --- which can complicate resolving issues when you don’t feel like the person is ‘in this together’ with you 💙💙

So hmmm ahhh-- I guess to help combat some issues--- it’s through learning and experience HOW to support, guide, help each other reach a level of independency (from each other) and self-assertiveness that can be useful. 💙

You can be together and supportive, but raising each other up without hurting each other’s feelings (how to do so depending on experience and development) and how to do things healthily (progressing towards betterment together individually) is something to look forward to 💙💙

I hope this is?? 💙💙 Understandable?? I might come back and edit the answer again to clarify/add more things because it feels a little stiff right now... I’ll probably gather more thoughts before coming back again, but yeah!! 💙💙 I hope this helps 💙

[ashey-did-owt-wrong]

Thoughts?

Verily verily mixed feelings on these little toothpick skewer thingies

First like its great because like its literally a stick..that you put food on. Or like those burger keep straight things idk i dont have burgers often. They are so useful and good for environment

They are also made of balsa which is supposed to mean that they are tasteless and have a tight grain to avoid a rough texture (i took tech for gcse amd regret it. More in 1 second). But still sets off the tism because the texture just goes XCXXZXXZCCXZXXZ BAD

I these give me bad ememoreies of me doing my 50% of my gcse nea(non exam ASSessment) (haha im so funny) and i couldnt find a ruler to sketch the product design and used 5 of these tsped together. I was so far behind with my nea i hated it so muchhwas awful

Eh well erm err they. Are. Like they exist idk. They ar euseful sometimes.but also i personaly am like.no go away.

[ashey-did-owt-wrong]

Whats your favorite kind of flower?

Ok!!!! It is it is ermm err . Of the wild carrot family. (I dont know what its caleddd erm its like erm cow rabbit or something i stg. It looks like hemlock so you have to be careful. Its on like roadsides everywhere here

Cow parsley!!!!! Its so pretty! BUT BEWARES

in that picture do you see the yellowish parts at the bottom? Thats hogweed. Its really poisonous and fucks you up on touch it burns tou but you only really get it down south (its like invasive takes over the cow parsley and wild carrot and hasnt spread too far)

Cow parsely apparently(i dont have a sense of smell) smells really nice like carrots and do you want a guess? (Clue? Parsley!!)

Another of the wild carrot famiky, it looks similar to hemlock, my favourite poison. Hemlock is more sparse and the white bits are more transparent, and is also quite rare and doesnt smell of anything apparenlty. Its my favourite posion becaise its basically fine until you are exposed to ultraviolet (unless its infrared i dont rememeber) light from the sun. Youre safe if you stay inside if you touch it by accident.

It says that 'hemlock collected in dsrkest night' or soemthing in macbeth and i wrote a paragraph about that in my gcse

Erm err so i actually i dont really have a favourite fkower, more so a family containing some of englands most posionous flora!

[ashey-did-owt-wrong]

THOIGHTS ON THE S HIP OF THESEUS!! ! ???

*flashbacks to religion lessons*

I forgot what my guy theseus called his ship for this ill say bob

So in my opinion right i think a name is like just a name bob is like the boat and the boat is bob becaise theseus said it is

He replaces all the parts his new iron clad ship is still bob because thats what my guy is calling it

And then his wife comes along and buys all the old parts and says this is acrually bob but well its only bob if you call it bob. It can be if you want it to be. A name is nothing doesnt mean anything its just a label

[ashey-did-owt-wrong]

[4] kitty or smartphone?

D O NOT DO THIS TO ME hwo can i decide

If.kitty then where do all the magical people in my phone (you) go

But if phone. Where are my kitten cats. I cannot live without themmmm

Im cant..i choose my kitties because they are both so lovely ever and i cannot leave them. One spends 90% of her time in my room with me and the other. Does his own thing. But still !! I cannot say no to my little kitten cats

[ashey-did-owt-wrong]

Would you rather be able to read people's minds, or beam things into people's minds? (one way communication regardless of choice) (things like the ethics of reading people's minds and sending things to people's minds is negated. They can consent or something)

Tjis is sobad..i cant decide..i dont think either are goid

Because like. I have no idea what other peoplw thinka nd . I mean maybe itd be nice? But i dont think people really like me and id rather not know.

And on the other hand. To be able to change poeples thoighs . How useful is that if i dont know whats theyre thibking in the first place? It would be so difficult. And im afraid id abuse the power. So nothing i did would have worth there would be no personal feeling of reward for doing anything good myself

I think id rather be able to read minds. Becaus ei guess i can cater to that and idk. Make people happy make people like me. Id be less inclined to use or abuse it i hope

[ashey-did-owt-wrong]

What would you put in a time capsule?

I dont know i dont believe in the future

Erm probably like all of the pages out of my notebook* with a tual drawings in them so i can see how i improve? If at all

Well i guess its probably not for me in the future just like. For the future?

Id probably put so much many pictures and stuff of ashey i want the people to like reduscover witches heart in the long dustant future and stuff idk