#nloa

[worstloki]

You’re not being inclusive. You are just hurting LGBT people, including LGBT aces. As a trans het, the inclusion of cishets hurts me

I won’t exclude aromantic/asexual people from being queer even if cis and het are both labels that can still apply.

You’re trying to draw a solid line between cishets and everyone else when it’s not uncommon for queer people to fall under either a cis or heterosexual label and the aspectrum describes bridges between experiencing romantic/sexual attraction and not, often resulting in multiple labels.

There may be an overlap with some terms but as long as someone believes they identify with an aspec label my opinion is they can use queer if they want. They’re description words and I’m not going to judge how much LGBT someone has to be before they can call themselves queer.

[worstloki]

Do u like frogs? I send u frogs 🐸

thank you!!! they are small and come in nice colours :D!!!

[worstloki]

I remember you mentioning tags to block for spoilers when the Loki show comes around but for the life of me I can’t find that post…if it’s not too much of a bother could you tell us how to block spoilers again?

this post has the list of tags to block for the loki show, (be sure to check the variations in the notes.)

to blacklist/block tags:

go into settings/account

scroll down to filtering and edit

type in the filters and press add

[worstloki]

Um…first gender crisis today, I got mistaken for a boy for the first time (I recently cut my hair.) I’m a girl, but I’m not feminine at all. I haven’t worn a dress or a skirt since my mom denied my request to wear a suit instead of a dress to a party.

Is it weird to want people to look at me and either see a boy or be not sure which I am- this is the first “sorry, I thought”, but I have noticed people looking twice when they see me- but still be a girl? Like, I’m a girl but I don’t want other people to know that straight out just by looking at me. I kinda want to push expectations of what makes a girl a girl, but I’m also a bit concerned that I have some gender thing going on that I didn’t know about before.

"first gender crisis today" sounds like the start of a ship log XD

As long as you're happy with identifying female you're female, even if you don't wish to meet typical standards of femininity. presentation and gender are not mutually exclusive

If it's of concern you could always test pronouns out or research into nonbinary terms (such as demiflux/demigirl/agender) to see if you find a label that feels it could fit.

[worstloki]

me: *looks through your account to see a peice of poetry you reblogged yesterday*

also me: *realizes there are a lot more posts than between now and yesterday than i thought there were*

me: *remembers how i tried to set myself an 8 post a day limit for this very reason (and failed)*

me:

[worstloki]

I've seen cishet to mean cisgender hetero-mantic/sexual (as in, both at the same time) and that's the definition I typically use too. Means the aros aren't left out and makes exclusionists mad

sounds right

[worstloki]

GOOD OMENS IS GETTING A SEASON 2!!!!!!!

I HEARD!!!!!!!!!

[worstloki]

I’m asexual. I’m also a chaos gremlin.

Can you suggest any weird/funny/unconventional ways to come out to my family? We’re a Christian family, but my mom and older sister are way more conservative than I am. I feel like coming out will go better if I get some laughs out of it.

- "I'm considering a career in nunnery/as a priest" ('people who complain about abstinence are weak. i could obliterate them all, it's not like i'm interested anyway, i reckon i could survive without sex. for religion, of course. to stay... devoted. not because i'm not interested. except that i dont tend to be.' 😌)

- "I'm not interested in the opposite gender." [later, after whatever scandalous reaction] "oh, i'm not interested in the same gender either :P"]

- "I've decided to make like Mary"

- "where has all the sexy gone in the world? men are oof, women are ehh, when will this change?"

- (goes on to lament on the good old days of medieval age dragons-riders and proceed to completely blend history up, talking about people in cool armour that never had sex because armour is too noisy to take off and they spent all their time busy dueling arch nemesis')

- "pick a card, any card" and then do a bunch of random magic-trick-like things but when you go "is this your card?" and they say 'no' whip out an ace of whatever and go "well, this is mine."

- suddenly gain a very vocal interest in types of asexual reproduction

- break a normal conversation with "by the way i'm asexual and that means im not attracted to anyone sexually" and then continue the conversation

- *sex scene of a movie comes on* "my ace heart didn't need this today"

- "i have such high standards that i've evaded the sin of lust like a boss"