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[bettuska0202]

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[assemblanceofpermanence]

no lesson this time

I usually try to make sense out of everything, giving it some reason or logic for happening or existing the way it is. But there comes a point in getting older in which trying to learn a lesson from everything can cause more harm than good. Getting cheated on, for example, truly teaches us that some people suck much more than average. And that some people are not to be trusted, in anything, ever. And that being betrayed hurts much more than expected, and that hurt lasts much longer than expected.

These are not positive, uplifting lessons. This is not a good example of "everything happens for a reason." So when I have tried over and over to learn something from this experience, I often end up trusting people less and assume in dating, that something unexpectedly negative could happen at any moment. What kind of lessons are these to live by? Horrible ones, really. And no, I did not "learn" from this situation that I am strong woman and can go on by myself and all that complete bullshit - if I have learned in my life that I am strong and can persevere it is because of something I went and did on my own, not because someone cheated on me.

We go through crappy situations and events in life not because we are supposed to learn something from them, but because they just happen. And by not taking the past and applying it to the present, by not making a lesson out of it, I am better off. Some people suck, yes, some people will make choices that hurt you, but that doesn't mean you should trust the next person any less. In fact, they've probably been through something quite similar, and you'd want them to trust you. So here's to people who don't suck! and to lessons not learned. 

[asiangirl5683]

IF ONLY

I know everyone is beautiful,gorgeous,pretty,cute,handsome, good looking, etc. in their own way but you can't help it but compare yourself and try to be like them. That's how i feel. I'm a uglay duckling trying to become like every other swan. Every single day I would be reminded that I'm not pretty or skinny enough. I would see pictures or meet up with them (friends or relatives) and unintentionally I'm already comparing myself to them and I see my flaws. But, I guess that makes me who I am. Though I won't stop noticing my flaws i will just make me a better person.