lirimvivaldi replied to your post “i accidentally had feelings about my muse… [[MOR] because i mean....”
With all of that said, how does that translate into his relationship with Danny?
Luther's relationship with Danny is interesting. On the one hand, with Danny, he's loved and accepted enough to be dominant when he has the urge, but for the most part, Danny takes the lead and they're both okay with that.
Danny is the masculine energy, even if Luther is the more intimidating energy at times.
The really unique part about this, though - and here's where some kiddos might want to plug their ears - is the daddy kink aspect of their relationship. And I don't mean that the sex is the best part of their relationship, but rather, I appreciate that they've created an environment safe enough for them to both enjoy such a "taboo" idea. Danny is the only one Luther has trusted enough to explore that, all verses considered.
Luther trusts Danny to take care of him and there is an understanding between them that Danny is not Luther's father, but he's giving Luther love from a "Daddy" figure. That's something Luther has wanted his whole life and they're comfortable enough to venture into that.
Really, Danny is just all around satisfying for Luther. He is the epitome of masculinity, in Luther's eyes. He's got broad shoulders, strong arms, a hairy chest, a defined jawline - the whole shebang. Yet never once has Luther felt intimidated by him. Danny is a prime example of a strong, masculine figure playing a positive role in Luther's life. He inadvertently teaches Luther that it's okay to be masculine. To go back to the satisfaction aspect, Danny is also willing to sate Luther's cravings for affection and intimacy and sex.
So there's this masculine, warm, friendly man that Luther's in love with and they get married quickly and Luther can actually see himself for once. He can get past his issues with his father, because Danny's shown him the error of his ways and he's helped him through that. He can get past the self loathing, because now, he's helped handsome Danny come to terms with his past too. The help is mutual and that's why Luther is so comfortable. He's comfortable and feels safe enough to look at himself and evaluate himself.
He can define himself now. He knows he has power, but Danny can always override that power, and there's nothing better to put him at ease than that fact. Danny will always be more powerful, in Luther's eyes, but that doesn't mean Luther can't have power too. So when he does define himself, he still defines himself according to Danny - the man who freed him from himself.
He defines himself as husband, lover, and father. He's a part of something now and while it may have seemed like the obvious choice, it was, ultimately, his choice to form this family. He chose something for himself. He chose change, which is quite a step for him. Really, his relationship with Danny is one of his healthiest relationships of all his verses.
Though I will say, Luther isn't exactly trained for domestication. He has no idea how it works and I'm 80% sure he'll find a way to really hurt Danny in one way or another. He's not used to being pinned down with responsibilities unless it's by his job. He's never been in a real relationship before Danny, unless you consider high school dating, but even Luther doesn't count that. He's going to mess up and it's a very real threat that he could mess up big time. That's coming from the mun, I mean. Luther's always going to worry that he'll fuck things up, but even I, the optimistic mun, am admitting that it's probably inevitable. He wants the best for Danny and his son, but there will be a subconscious part of him fighting against this happiness he's created for himself.
