I need help. Like. I'm biologically female but if someone were to honestly ask me I'd be like... my gender is "blarg?"if that makes sense? I'm really confused. Is it normal to feel like your identity... sort of isnt there? Like... I wouldnt really care if I was called a he or she. My friend says I might be non binary but i looked it up and thats a... spectrum? I'm so confused...
Elorra: okay so nonbinary means you don’t feel like a boy or a girl, you are simply you. many use the pronouns they/them when describing themselves since binary means two and you don’t fit into the binary of male and female.. You are not a gender, unlike bi-gender. bi-gender is where the spectrum comes in you can move between feeling like a boy or a girl. one day you feel like a lady and the next week you feel like a man. Sometimes you feel like both!
Elorra: From what I can tell the spectrum can also be for Sex, when you are born you can sometimes have a mix of male and female genitalia, many doctors choose to remove the bits of the child that are less necessary, say you have one part of the male genitalia, lets say the cock. but then your “balls” are a vagina. they will actually “fix” this without telling the parents in some cases.
Elorra: sex and gender is very confusing, its okay to ask questions.