Ya know, I was questioning my ace for a while because I can understand sex jokes and references until I realize I get really uncomfortable with it and almost every single one of them I learnt against my will. So now I kinda identify as aroace or arograyace
(I was thinking of that when I saw your eggplant comic, wanna try ratatouille some day so badly)
RIGHT??? I feel so much of the sexual stuff we can talk about is just learned behavior because that's all. There. Ever. Is. Around. Like we're force-fed it from all sides, and from a pretty young age, too. It's no wonder I find myself, and probably a lot of other people do too, saying a sex joke as a reflex, only to have a person on front of you be like "...Why are you telling a sex joke?" and leaving you bamboozled like "...Isn't that what is expected of me at this very moment?"
Either way congrats of figuring yourself out more, and I wish you the best whatever happens^^
(Also yeah. You should if you can. Ratatouille is the bomb.)