idk about anyone else but to me as malaysian, usually when i don't know what language someone speaks and i want to talk to them, i'll go with english (especially when i can't see them, like online). and then they reply in malay and i feel like i appear as a frikin bougie ass colonizer wannabe and feel ashamed that i even know how to speak english ugh like i go home and have a fuckin tea and scones in a dessert stand and watch wallace and fucking gromit (which i Actually do FUCKK )
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