@nonnymums My MIL told me I was selfish, didn't care about what anyone else thought and that everyone in the family was going to hate me and boycott my wedding because we weren't inviting children. To my destination wedding. On a lake. At a 5 star resort. My MOH has 3 kids. And my bridesmaid had a 2 year old. If they were fine with it, she should have been fine with not having my niece there. And even if she was pissed about it, putting her finger in my face and screaming these things at me on Christmas Eve wasn't the best laid plan. She also told me not to be an anxious mother because I didn't want to fly on an airplane with a 2 week old baby. OH she introduced me as "Ians friend" after we had been together for 4 years, lived together and were common law married (he was on my health insurance). Seriously, the tip of the fucking iceberg.
