How do we rob our children of their hopes and dreams? But constantly barraging them with negative words. Don’t, shouldn’t, can’t. These words typically come out of our mouths when they want to do something that we either disapprove of or don’t think they will succeed in. Why because we don’t want them to have hurt failings or we don’t want their failures to become ours. What will you have left if you keep on this course. An adult that is depressed, has no hope and has never failed because they were never allowed to try. When they don’t ever fail they never learn what they can do. So don’t steal this gift from them. Encourage them to do things, to take risks and to fail. Sure they will get hurt have some negative emotions. However with each failure they we learn lessons that they have been put on this planet to learn and thrive from. So don’t be their Ant, be there anything is possible and let them have that beautiful gift of hope. You can love them or control them but you can’t do both. 🤘#momofboysandgirls #nonstopmama #parentingteens #loveyourselftohealyourself #loveyourgirls #loveyourchildrenunconditionally #growingupwithstrictparents #stressedparents #sadparents #parentingteensishard #parentingtips #momstruggles #dadstruggles #mommystress #lovemykidsforever #teenagerstruggles #trueparents #parentingcoach #parentwithoutfear #parentwithpurpose #parentcoach #parentsupport #singleparentsupport #divorcedparents #parenting #singleparents #divorcedmom #stressedparents #divorcedmoms #hope (at Plymouth, Massachusetts) https://www.instagram.com/p/B3uzMVYFXA5/?igshid=3uxtg0wxuz0w