I mean no disrespect but don’t you find this whole relationship between Sam and Steph contrived? Nothing is organic. Everything is innuendo. And all of these sources keep coming to you to feed this narrative. It just doesn’t ring true. If Sam is truly with her he should stop the innuendo and make it public on his Instagram. Give people real proof directly from him. Until then, sorry but you can keep posting these pictures that sources send you and it’s still just not believable. If anything the Christmas pictures made it look even less believable. Again no disrespect. I believe you are a victim in all of this too.
Hi Anon, thanks for stopping by. This is going to be a LONG post, so kick up your feet and grab a drink.
As for your assertions, you've bought into a false narrative and therefore your conclusions are also faulty. Let me clarify with the TRUTH. There is only one. For real. You can have an opinion about the truth, but you can't deny the truth. Facts are facts.
You say that the Sam and Steph relationship is contrived and nothing is organic. Anon, Sam and Steph have not shown us anything about their relationship other than them posing together at the opening of his Galloway Distillery at the end of September 2025. This was such a soft launch for a relationship, and literally so organic, and uncontrived, that most of us didn't notice it. If you watch the video of the Distillery Opening that came out later, you can see how natural and relaxed everything was, right down to Steph's young daughter running around carefree behind Sam while he's giving an interview. This pic was posted at the end of September 2025, but I never saw it. 👇
I hadn't seen the pic above until I was directed to it in DM's by a source I've known for years and someone I trust. These are the DM's she sent me, which I've already posted. 👇
The ONLY reason I found out about the Sam and Steph relationship is because this source told me about it. It's funny how people think I do all this deep data mining, I DON'T, for the millionth time, OTHER people pay attention or get info, or insider sources reach out to me, and they SEND IT TO ME and I POST IT. No big mystery. They get to remain anonymous, that's why it works. That's it. That's all. The ONLY thing Sam made public about the relationship was that pic. Steph didn't post anything publicly about the relationship. And they literally dated for MONTHS, and no one got wind of it. So, how is that innuendo, Anon? There was literally NOTHING for months. Then Sam DID tell the fandom about the relationship, just quietly. But, I guess some people need a big press announcement, so it was ignored. He's already announced the relationship. See above. AND he made it very clear Steph's daughter is part of the equation by allowing her to pose in the pic. Sam could have easily said "let's not have her in the pic," but he didn't. Again, signaling that he is ALL IN. We just didn't pay attention enough.
Also, and this is VERY IMPORTANT, multiple insider sources, have confirmed to me that Sam and Steph have known each other for YEARS. And not just peripherally, known each other as in MET years ago. I'm still getting the info, so that's all I'll say about that for now. But know that Sam isn't someone Steph just met after her second husband died. He's been in her life for a long time and the timing between them just wasn't right. And then it was. Again, I'm still getting all the info and I don't want to post prematurely, but it's a very sweet and romantic story. I really wish those in the fandom that tend to romanticize love stories or fantasize about Sam would realize the #stepham story IS a LOVE STORY. A wonderful one from everything I'm hearing, it's too bad people can't shift their energies to ship them instead of trying to vilify them. Shipping a REAL love story is much more satisfying than shipping a faux ship going nowhere.
Anon, you also said that Sam should announce the relationship on Instagram. Not his style. He's never done that. Even with his ex, Mackenzie Mauzy, he DID post a pic of them together directly on his Instagram, but he didn't mention anything about the relationship. The pic was obviously obvious. No announcement needed. Same with the pic above of he and Steph and her daughter. But now, that the cat is out of the bag, so to speak, he may take Steph to the Outlander premiere. And again, that should be enough for most. But, the thing you're not getting, Anon, is that Sam DOES NOT OWE HIS FANS ANYTHING ABOUT HIS PERSONAL LIFE. Just because fans watch his TV shows, films, buy his books, booze, pay for meet and greets and conventions, DOES NOT MEAN he has to let you into his personal life. All he owes fans is a good performance in his TV Shows and Films and to give them the products they paid for. His personal life is not included in the price of admission.
You may accuse me of contradicting myself: Sam doesn't owe us anything about his personal life, then why do I post about it? Because fans are naturally interested. It's the normal thing that happens with all celebs. So, I give fans what they want. My blog is literally a blog to post info like that. You said "all of these sources keep sending me info to feed this narrative." There's no narrative, just facts. Like I just said, THAT'S LITERALLY THE PURPSOSE OF MY BLOG--to post pics and sightings. I get the info because I'm established in the fandom for the last 11 years as the go to person to send this info to and I will post it, keeping the sources anonymous. Your questions is liking asking why do people send info and pics to the celebrity gossip site Deux Moi? Because that's literally what they post. Why do people buy flowers from a flower shop? Why do people buy food from a market? Why do people go to a lawyer for legal advice? Because that's what they sell. Doh. This is what I sell. (not literally, I should have monetized my blog a long time ago, but then I couldn't be anon myself, but I digress).
Where else are people going to send pics, sightings, and source info if not the blog that has posted them for the last 11 years? It should not be a big mystery. Simple and obvious, as the truth tends to be. AND they also send stuff to me because I am, and have always been, supportive of Sam and his significant others. And I am VERY supportive of Sam and Steph's relationship. Based on everything I've been told about her and have seen myself, she's an amazing woman, they've known each other through the good and the bad FOR YEARS, I really think she's the one. I couldn't be happier for both of them. So, Anon, there's NO narrative. There's the TRUTH. FACTS. And I just post the facts and the truth. No conspiracy theories involved.
The reason we got so many pics, sightings, and info when Sam was in Stratford performing in Macbeth was because fans knew he was there and for how long. They knew they could make a trip to Stratford, stay in a hotel, watch him in Macbeth multiple times, wait for him after the show to meet him, and possibly see him around town. Steph, being his girlfriend, did the NORMAL thing and naturally went to visit him when she could. Sometimes she went alone and sometimes she went with her daughter. None of that is abnormal, suspicious, or a "narrative." It's simply real life, facts, and truth. All I did was pass on the pics and info from the fans that were in Stratford. Did you want Sam and Steph to not act like a normal couple and just hide in Sam's rental, and Steph to never go sit in the audience to watch her BOYFRIEND perform in Macbeth? THAT would be contrived and not organic.
Sam is a public figure, he has a public Instagram account, where he mostly posts professional content. It's not the avenue for him to be posting about his relationship. Steph is not a public figure, she has a private Instagram account, where she posts mostly personal content. Although, she has posted some pics from her job as a mental health therapist that uses animals to help people in therapy. As an aside, yes, she has a JOB. That's her job. She does what I said above. She also models, sings, makes jewelry, which she sells, and paints, and sells her art. Her schedule is flexible enough for her to take time off when she chooses. Anyhoo, haters attacked Steph for her account going public for one day and then *gasp* we could see everything she has been posting PRIVATELY. I don't know if that was an Instagram glitch, it's happened to me before. Or she did it on purpose just to test the waters and hoped Sam's fans were nice and would be happy for her and Sam. Obviously, she was deluged with hundreds of new followers and a lot of hate messages, she probably went "nope, some of them are "mental" like Sam warned me," and promptly went back to being private. That's not Steph playing with the fandom or posting innuendo. Posting pics to a private account that only her followers can see is not posting innuendo. If she wanted to post innuendo, she would go public and keep posting pics of her with Sam. But she isn't doing that. And in fact, she keeps kicking off people that she doesn't know.
BTW, why are there so many misogynistic WOMEN in this fandom? Always behaving like SUCH ASSHOLES to the women Sam dates. You should be ashamed of yourselves. There is NOTHING WRONG with Steph. And Sam loves her. That should be enough. If you're a Sam fan, that should be enough. His life, his choice.
To reiterate some FACTS: Steph is gorgeous (I'd kill for her hair), intelligent (one Bachelor's Degree and TWO Masters Degrees), compassionate since she counsels people using animal therapy, talented--she models, sings, creative--she makes jewelry and paints. She's loved by her family and friends as told to me by more than one insider source. No one I've talked to has one bad thing to say about her. And I can't say that about every woman Sam has dated. I just never shared that stuff publicly. She's a doting mother who takes her daughter practically everywhere with her. She suffered two great losses, a divorce from the father of her daughter (he's Canadian, like Steph, is professional ice hockey player who plays in Germany. Being the wife of a professional athlete can be very difficult) and the sudden cancer death of her second husband and Irish musician-hence why she lives in Ireland. Logic would dictate that if you've gone through motherhood and two big losses like that by your mid-thirties, you become strong and resilient--all positive qualities. Truth. Facts. And Sam has known her through all of this and been there to offer support. And now, they can finally be together. Epic love story, I'd say. Plus, she's a Taurus like Sam--major compatibility.
So, we have Sam, who by all accounts is a wonderful man. And Steph, who by all accounts is a wonderful woman. And now these two wonderful humans are making a life together with Steph's daughter. What is WRONG with some of you that you can't be happy for them? Because, make no mistake, there IS something wrong with you if you can't be happy for them. It's a new year, do some self-reflection, look at your life, look at your choices. Being jerks to two people who have done nothing to you and who are just trying to love each other is not a good look.
Anyway, sorry for the long ass stream of consciousness post, but I'm hungover from New Year's Eve.
In summary, Anon, Sam and Steph aren't doing anything other than living their lives, literally not thinking about us at all. NOTHING they do is FOR US. They don't owe us anything. So, please disengage from that type of narcissistic thinking. They are doing their thing and sometimes we get lucky, and we get a glimpse of it. But nothing is being fed to me by them, it's all the people who have source info and/or are at the right time, right place. That's all. Truth. Facts.
So, Anon, there can only be ONE thing that's true. Either Sam and Steph are a couple. Or Sam and Steph are not a couple. I know FOR SURE that Sam and Steph are a couple through MULTIPLE sources. And separately, at this point, the pic and eyewitness sightings overwhelmingly point to them being in a romantic relationship. So, the ONE and ONLY TRUTH is that Sam and Steph ARE A COUPLE. Full Stop. Your OPINION can be that you don't like the truth, but anyone still denying it's true is just being willfully foolish at this point.
So, for the haters, bitch and whine all you want about the #stepham TRUTH, but you can no longer deny it. And if you do, you're firmly placing yourselves in the "you're a dumbass," category. Do you want 2026 to be another year you continue to be a dumbass? Let's hope not.
PS. In case you missed it the first time, I will no longer be posting any pics that are not taken in public. Only public pics from now on. Capisce?
To my loyal followers, both old and new, love and appreciate you all so much--Happy New Year! ❤️🍾
