ghosted
i told him that men sometimes disappear after they fuck me.
not answering texts or e-mails.
he claimed to be surprised, even outraged on my behalf.
where is he now? of course i have a tendency to believe in the good in people, i hope the fellow is ok. i don’t bother coming up with scenarios. i’ll let him be. i don’t mind a one or two time fling, but i think afterward it’s reasonable to let someone know that you had fun but aren’t planning on pursuing anything long term, or even beforehand. flings are lovely. as long as everyone is on the same page. i was on that page. but i still like being treated with courtesy. i’m not hurt in any way. what’s that saying? not my first rodeo? i’m a world class bull rider. so i can handle the bull shit as well.
