Why Your Lover or Spouse Is Not Talking. The Johnsons are here again. The once vivacious, excited, laughing-out-loud Mrs. Johnson has become a shadow of her herself. She is completely withdrawn into her shell and then sealed the shell with super glue. Her husband couldn’t reach her again. She is not just distant, she is unreachable, akin to the annoying response from mobile phones which says “this number is unreachable!” Sally on the other hand who is engaged to George is completely frustrated with the new leaf her fiancee has turned. He just won’t talk and comes across as stiff as a board most times. Why do our lovers and spouses press the mute button? Why do our lovers who were once “always on” hibernate to the inner recesses of their minds where their emotions are iced and the romance’ nervous system shuts down indefinitely?This is what we will look at today and maybe next few days. I will attempt to give us five reasons why this may be so.Why Your Lover or Spouse Is Not Talking - They are not hearing anything When your spouse is hearing nothing, they say nothing! Take a look at the Scripture we’ve been looking at the past few days. Mar 9:17 (KJV) And one of the multitude answered and said, Master, I have brought unto thee my son, which hath a DUMB SPIRIT;When they brought the boy to Jesus, they complained about a dumb spirit.















