3 of the rehearsed moments in Panic! at the Disco’s NRWC tour
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It was super entertaining to watch these 3 parts evolve as the tour progressed... and to hear the crowd scream whenever Brendon & Ryan came within a few feet of each other lol.
So in late 2006 Ryan was really into the idea of creating one continuous storyline that would run through the whole second album. The NRWC tour did something similar with a small story that started before Lying Is The Most Fun and then continued before I Write Sins. Brendon was the only one with a character in this theatrical tour, but Jon & Ryan supported his acting in a way that reflected the story in the upcoming songs. Here’s a general evolution of the first intro (some clips are missing the beginning lines, but that part still happened each night):
I think a lot of fans were expecting an actual kiss eventually, but the closest thing they got was a kiss on the cheek towards the end of tour (notice how on the final night Brendon quickly got Ryan’s consent first, yet still chose to avoid his mouth). Brendon also backed away instead of doing even the fake kiss on some nights when Ryan looked a little nervous, so every night of the IWSNT intro was slightly different.
The “poise and rationality” moment of IWSNT followed the same general idea most nights (except for a couple times where Brendon skipped it and Ryan looked abandoned):
Several fans on the barrier at many different shows mentioned seeing Jon and/or Ryan suppress a laugh after the crowd screamed during these parts. Some people didn’t get what the fuss was about and pointed out how a lot of guys in other bands did the exact same thing to get a rise out of their audience... and fans would also scream with the same intensity every time Gabe Saporta grabbed himself during the opening act. But I thought the crowd’s reaction was still funny no matter how often it happened (like look at 1:20 in the “poise & rationality” video lol).
Even the most excited fans online seemed to understand that the band was just having fun playing into what they knew the crowd wanted to see. Obviously each guy was starting from a very different level of enthusiasm for acting & having their expressions magnified on giant arena screens, but I thought they all did really well in their own way.
This tour was a scripted, rehearsed theatrical show that Out Magazine described in early 2008 as “such a flamboyant and sexual stage show that even Rolling Stone was compelled to ask singer Brendon Urie and guitarist Ryan Ross if they were dating.” (This show wasn’t scripted as in a full written script btw… so maybe “planned out” is a better phrase). However, some of the stage parts were literally scripted.
Brendon was playing a role from a plan that the entire band created together. If you have no idea what the context of the NRWC moments were, it might look like Ryan was powerless onstage to do anything but shut down while a creepy version of Brendon harassed him. Or it could look like they were so in love that Brendon couldn’t keep his hands off Ryan. That was absolutely not the case with this tour. Brendon’s actions came from him trying to be a certain character. It wasn’t Brendon being a complete creep all out of his own accord while the rest of the band tolerated the moments he was forcing them into.
I think Ryan’s reluctance you see onstage during this tour was a combination of his general personality (Ryan Ross was never going to be an overly charismatic actor ok) and the fact that Ryan was supposed to be noncommittal and passive towards Brendon’s character at that point and then reject him.
The two songs used for the routine near-kiss moments were IWSNT and Lying Is The Most Fun. If you know the stories behind the lyrics of the songs, you’ll see that the way Ryan acts in the theatrical intros makes sense in that context. Both of those songs came from Ryan’s ex-girlfriend cheating on him… they involve rejection. Even though Ryan didn’t have his own character, he was still doing his best to encourage/support Brendon’s acting from within the context of each song. If you misread Ryan’s responses then it kind of diminishes his valiant efforts. A few times Brendon switched and used Jon for the same moments he usually did with Ryan, and in that case Jon did the exact same passive rejection act that Ryan usually did.
I’m not saying I agree with the idea of selling gay for shock value (nor am I saying they were necessarily doing that). I’ll admit I’m not the right person to analyze any of that. I’m just trying to clarify the context of the gifs people are using. Here’s a really good recap from a fan who went to 7 shows in the NRWC tour! She analyzed the stage gay & the role of women onstage and so many topics. (She also says that one night Pete was there watching and after the “poise and rationality” grinding part, Ryan turned to Pete with a grin and asked if he liked that). Ryan was super close with Pete… and I don’t think Pete or anyone coached him into anything. The P!ATD guys were pretty well known for doing whatever they wanted to do. Ryan was especially vocal about that. With how much Ryan controlled Panic’s image and the direction of the band, I really don’t think he would have let them go full steam ahead with the stage gay if he didn’t want it.
Why they did the stage gay stuff is a whole other topic that I’m not looking at here… but this interview with Brendon around the time they were planning the NRWC tour maybe touches on what they thought they were going for. Here’s a bit more about the band’s costumes & flamboyant influences. And here’s what Spencer & Jon told Out Magazine: