#ohlongjohnsson

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Rappelle moi où tu habites déjà ? La prochaine fois, je prends le tgv et on se sifflera la bouteille à deux. <3

Mais ouiiiii! Juste à côté de Toulouse! A peine plus d’une heure d’avion de Paris (faut pas faire le trajet en train urgh, trop long) (t’es à Paris toi je crois?)

[evanstan]

ohlongjohnsson

[[MOR] So my dog has been sick for the last year...

*warm and supportive hug* I’m really sad to read all this. Pets are the sweetest, they should never go.

Thank you ♥ 

[founderofshield]

Also some people on that site are just amazing. Ily.

[actuallyadhd]

Hi ! First of all, thank you for your blog. I am dating a ADHD man for a few months now, and it was very chaotic at first because i didn’t know / get what adhd was, but now i read a lot about it, and i try to be more patient with him. But i am not a very stable person myself (fighting anxiety, tough childhood scars and a recent grief), and i need to have long and deep conversations to get things straight. But i have no idea how to talk with my man. When i see him, he’s either really happy (oh, btw, he’s a weed addict) or really aggressive. I need to explain him how i work, as i’m not a very normal girl, and sometimes my reactions seem unrelated to the actual facts. Also i’d like to get to know him better and understand him, his adhd and his drug issue too. But he’s never willing to talk about himself. I’m a pretty strong and supportive person, but i can’t do nothing as long as he won’t let me. It’s extremely frustrating for me. I have no idea how he feels about himself, also i don’t understand weed (i’ve tried it, but it does nothing to me). He’s a mystery and it’s really hard i can’t communicate with him. The only “real” conversations we’ve had, were on the phone, but it’s really hard to have him on the phone (it’s also very hard to get to see him). If you have any tips to help me communicate with him without being intrusive, i’ll be so grateful. Thank you !

[The relationship problems you describe don’t seem to have much to do with ADHD. Buy or borrow a copy of He’s Just Not That Into You and read the whole thing. You deserve someone you can talk to!

—Elise

While ADHD can definitely have an impact on relationships, the most telling thing here is that you say you don’t actually communicate with your boyfriend. You also say that you don’t see him very often or talk to him much on the phone. This all makes me wonder if he’s really your boyfriend in his own mind.

Communication is really important for a relationship, which you obviously know or you wouldn’t be asking for help here. The thing is, this doesn’t sound like a communication problem that’s due to ADHD. It sounds like there are other things going on (one of which is his addiction), and it would probably be better for you to get out of this relationship and find someone you’re more compatible with.

-J] 

[sansastlark]

Bon anniversaire ohlongjohnsson ♡♡♡

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Woah remember that time mortgagetrader8 tagged me to do this? Cause sure as hell didn’t. Eh I have shitty handwriting I know. I blame my left hand Sure ill tag people Okay… ohlongjohnsson thefrustratedxerneas sarajust buxkybarnaes thebeatles-rock-and-you-dont illegitimate-martian daft-nerd Yeah that’s good

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TAG GAME: CHARACTERS WHO SHARE THE SAME PERSONALITY TYPE AS YOU.

If you don’t know your personality type, take the test here.

Tagged by:  Niennathevalar <3   Rules: Find out what characters share the same personality type as you here and list the characters that you find relevant below. Then tag some friends and let them know you tagged them!

I’m an INTJ (Mastermind) (Please don't be scared, I'm just a Psychopath)

Jafar from Aladdin  (Lol. OKAY :D)

Ben Wyatt from Parks and Recreation (Oh hi baby <3)

Bruce Wayne (Batman) from Batman (IM BATMAN!!!!)

Walter White from Breaking Bad (Oh. Well....*cries*)

Rupert Giles from Buffy the Vampire Slayer (Why not?)

Ebeneezer Scrooge from A Christmas Carol (LMAO YUUS)

David Rossi from Criminal Minds (Well. okay?)

The eponymous Dr. No (OH YUUUS.)

Some incarnations of the Doctor from Doctor Who (? Well okay that helps a lot.)

Edd from Ed, Edd n Eddy (Which one is Edd?)

Stewie Griffin from Family Guy (STEWIEEE)

Jean-Baptiste Emmanuel Zorg from The Fifth Element (If I can keep my haircut, that's fine)

Ross Gellar from Friends (Like Chandler better)

Tom Hagen and Michael and Vito Corleone from The Godfather (Uhuhuh)

Severus Snape and Lord Voldemort from Harry Potter (... Well that scares me.)

Marvin the Paranoid Android from The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy (MY BABYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY)

Smaug from The Hobbit (HAHAHAHA. FREACKING YES)

Dr. Gregory House from House (Well that's accurate)

Arthur from Inception (MY BABYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY)

O-Ren Ishii from Kill Bill (Okay.)

Scar from The Lion King (AGAIN: BABYYYYY)

Denethor and Saruman from The Lord of the Rings (HAHAHA No.)

The Architect from The Matrix Reloaded (..Fine.)

C.C. Babcock from The Nanny (LMAO.)

Captain Hook from Peter Pan (YESSS)

The Brain from Pinky and the Brain (BABBBYYY)

Mewtwo from Pokémon: The First Movie (<3333)

Mojo Jojo from The Powerpuff Girls (Gniiii)

Marcellus Wallace from Pulp Fiction (Lol.)

John Doe from Se7en (HELL FUCKING YES !)

Miranda from Sex and the City (Lol.)

Professor James Moriarty from Sherlock Holmes (OMG MY PRECIOUS BABY)

Hannibal Lecter from Silence of the Lambs (YUS! Im a Cannibal.)

Mr. Burns and Sideshow Bob from The Simpsons (HAHA)

Maleficent from Sleeping Beauty (Gnihi)

Tywin Lannister from Game of Thrones (Rofl.)

Shadow the Hedgehog, Espio the Chameleon, and E-123 Omega from Sonic the Hedgehog (YEAH SHADOW.)

Cindy "Mac" Mackenzie from Veronica Mars (sweetie <3)

Michonne from The Walking Dead (Okay ?)

Tagging : Littlemonkeypo (always), ohlongjohnsson, reveries-terriennes, whattheBOOTYgraspsnot, lovealetterbomb, silly-grl, eyesoffelina and whoever wants to do it because I find that thing fun !