May 8
The awkward parts of sex make it really fun too. I think some people are too serious about how perfect everything has to be but. I was told to degrade myself and I immediately was like um actually I don't want to. Not even as a limit I just feel uncomfortable. I didn't safeword but immediately got a "oh you dont have to!" And that was it. Him not pushing it made me trust him more and I feel like theres a bit of emphasis in bdsm of only stopping when someone safewords but theres also just feeling the vibe and being accepting of "I don't like it" or "wait" as a statement to be listened to.
