i usually hate being in fandoms for shippers for an mlm ship cause most of the time its straight women and most of the time they refer to a mlm couple as "yaoi" (even when there is no smut and the two mem are minors!!!!!) and most of the time they overly sexualize the two guys because they find it hot that two guys are kissing.
and thats what i expected with byler. but no. the majority of bylers are either gay guys in theyre 30s/40s, trans guys, or lesbians. dont get me wrong, theyre will always be straight women in there overly sexualizing them, and that sucks. BUT whenever i see people slandering girls who ship byler i literally become the biggest defender cause like??? who do you think made "lesbyler"? a straight person??? who do you think started "cleradin"?? a man?? and just who takes time out of theyre day to make up random ass variants of these non canon boys in april when the show ended in december? a person who only likes the ship to sexualize them?
sorry i will always defend byler shippers and especially girl byler shippers cause they went through tremendous amounts of disappointment and pain and felt mocked just as much as queer guys did. i hate when people make fun of bylers because it hurts if your straight and judging because you dont even know how it feels to be queer, to be closeted, to be "different". and it hurts even more if your judging and your queer because. you know how that feels you know how hard it is to be queer since forever it has always been so hard and it will alwayd be and your making fun of being who feel mocked because they wiggled a little treat in front of queer people faces for 10 years and then snatched it away.
so yeaaaa shout out byler shippers shout out women shout out most of all lesbiansssss (or just queer women in gen) love yall so much
also shout out trans guys yall do everything













