#on boundaries

[badbitcheschoose]

if you are a woman on a mission and is working on building a life for herself, having a filtering system but in your day to day life is so important, so you don't get derailed by other people's urgencies and priorities. some incoming things are just not worth my attention, time, and energy, which are limited resources!

[thethirdbear]

i would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect.

[badbitcheschoose]

[badbitcheschoose]

[badbitcheschoose]

It finally clicked for me: self care and self worth are tied!!!!! When u value urself and perceive urself of value INHERENTLY without chasing or proving or seeking external validation u naturally want to take care of urself, cater to urself… including eating right, investing in urself, taking care of ur body, resting and prioritizing time for urself, keeping promises urself. U wouldn’t overwork urself or overthink or people please or over explain urself or put others over urself or create a certain image of urself or procrastinate out of fear/perfectionism or chase anything that doesn’t want u. I’ve been forcing discipline and routines and an image of success my whole life when u just should naturally show up and live your life as a woman who loves and values herself and her life! And naturally when u have that mindset u end up taking care of urself!!! And naturally when u set that standard for urself and meet ur standards other ppl will also rise to meet u!!!!!! WOW this just clicked for me!!!

[badbitcheschoose]

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