how would trio8 describe their sexualities and gender? :EEmagnifyingglass:
Kitty uses she/her, identifies as a woman, and she considers herself bisexual. Labels help her make sense of herself, even if she sometimes finds them a little restrictive. Still, she knows the basics of her identity and has no problem letting them known. There's just a lot of nuance lost with the things people assume. She enjoys hearing he/him used when she's in the role of the King. She likes the power it brings her, and the idea of being a woman who gets to be a man. It's fun.
Slushie uses he/him, identifies as a man, and has no established label for his sexuality. Early on, that was a source of confusion, frustration. He felt like you were supposed to stick with the default settings, and anything outside of that came with assumptions. EECT have always complicated his life. He doesn't mind she/her when it's tied to his role as the Queen, and in fact it can also feel powerful. Still, it's easy to bitch at some of the things EECT choose to call him, but ultimately that's a part of the fun.
Emci doesn't care about gender, sexuality, or personal labels at all. While you can use whatever pronouns you want for him, he holds no connection to she/her or feminine terms. Since they don't feel like they belong to him, he wouldn't think to answer to them. Anything else is fine as long as it doesn't get complicated. He has no real preference and no need for variety. Creature of a man.
For all three, attraction is selective to the point of exclusion.
Overall, they're far more fond of roles than they could ever be of labels.















