Hey how about this: Stop calling people you dislike for personal taste reasons (music style, fashion, writing, art, ect.) ugly. Stop calling people you don’t agree with ugly. Stop using ugly as an insult.
Stop telling people to choke. this is the equivalent of telling someone to go die or to kill themselves. Stop being overly violent during online arguments. Even if you disagree with people’s opinions, they don’t deserve to be threatened or to die. You can only be held responsible for such words and it will backfire.
Say things like they are: You dislike the music someone does, you disagree with the person you’re arguing with, you have reason to believe what they do harms people... but unless you do not know them personally and know their struggles, stop bullying them.