I've seen some shit flying around in the corners of the feminist community and so im here to speak up, in case anyone stumbles across these and ends uo confused:
You do 🚫 have to be fond of every woman in order to be a Radfem, you do not have to think all women are innocent and that everything we do, no matter if good or bad is a result.of the patriarchy in order to be a Radfem, you do not have to be in communion with people who do you wrong in order to be a Radfem.
You're still you, radical feminism doesn't mean you lose your identity. It's more of adding a new perspective to your life not making you blend into one big group. It's not anti feminist to have your own life, whoever says that is anti feminist actually since, your restricting women from following their own life's oath and forcing bad mental health onto us. Be you, embrace feminism and embrace independence. 💜
PSA: this is coming from a person who grew up with an abusive "mom" I still hate her to this day, and to think that there's "radfems" who might support her is beyond me. What a stupid idea. Including her would be excluding me.