i've always thought that the more you brainstorm and the more hcs and thoughts you present the better because that shows active interest, but today i was told that it can be overbearing/imposing and man, i feel so fucking dumb sometimes i can't take a hint and i feel like there's this unspoken "game" of push and pull when you're trying to plot with someone to show interest?? like you can't talk too much but you also can't talk too little and if you brainstorm too much the other person will tune out?? and i don't know how to play the game at all, i don't have the rules, i don't know the cues. i just yap, i just share shit and brain dump, i just get hyped and nothing i ever share has to be final i just want to brainstorm. please just tell me what you want and i tell you want i want and we share ideas and opinions my autistic ass is literally too dumb for doing thing any other way.