#oooooofffff

[sebxvettel]

[ava-valerie]

[levikra]

Was just curious if you’d be interested to see my traditional sketches,,,, I’ve been posting them, yeah, but I always get the feeling that they’re not that uhh presentable looking xD

[sweet-teeth-mfs]

Choking

No | rather not | I dunno | I guess | Sure | Yes | 

FUCK yes | Oh god you don’t even know |

Send me kinks pls! 😂🙏🏻😏✨

[mytearsrricochet]

I was going back through old hate mail trying to find one specific thing and found non-anonymous hate mail from someone I’m now a mutual with who interacts with me often I think we just mutually forgot about it

[mosaic-marquise]

I just finished Asra’s book (*´･o･)

The boss just pulled the ol’ switcheroo on me like a sucker ୧(๑•̀ᗝ•́)૭ !!

[efyinwonderland]

[draggeddowntothedark]

What is your Life Trap?

Subjugation

You experience the world in terms of control. Other people in your life always seem to be more powerful than you. You feel that you must please them. Sacrifice yourself and submit to them. The only person you do not feel obliged to please is yourself.

You feel trapped in your life. You are constantly meeting the needs of others with so much attentiveness that life loses its freedom. You are passive. A sculpture being shaped by others. Life happens to you.

When your needs are constantly frustrated, anger is inevitable. At some level, you know you feel used or controlled. But you feel your needs do not count. It is hard for you to connect with what you really want or prefer in a situation. You feel overwhelmed and confused. It is easier for you to do what others want. You rationalize your tendency to please others. You tell yourself that it doesn’t really matter.

It is rare for you to express your anger directly. It is far more common for you to take it out in a disguised fashion. You procrastinate, show up late, or neglect legitimate expectations that people have for you. It is difficult for others to know whether you are irritated or simply weak. Many conclude that since you act unstably, you are in need of more control and direction from them. In this way, you perpetuate your pattern of putting others in roles where they feel they must control you.